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But it seems that he is way more enthusiastic right now. I want simplicity for now and I certainly don't want a relationship with someone who lives in another country (have had plenty of those as is) and much younger (and thus inexperienced) than me. Prejudice? Maybe. Anyway, as I have cautiosly replied to his enthusiastic email, he replied quite fast and finished with "I've missed you". Jesus, back off, we've only ever met twice... and nothing romantic has ever taken place.
I cast a reading and this is what I got for us to shed some light as to what is going on. I would highly appreciate some objective eyes on this from a wholesome perspective.
General analysis of the relationship between X and I? 18.1.3>41
His position? 39.3.4.5>16
My position? 3 unchanging
Long term potential? 26.6>11
What relationship is he looking for with me? 27.4>21
What attitude to take towards him? 48.5>46
Will this be a romantic union? 3.3.5>36
Why do I feel so opressed by him? 3.2.3.6>9
considering all your questions (which sound like you are obsessed as well). Obsession is a red flag. It is overwhelming to answer so many of your question, but maybe deep down inside you like him as well to answer your last question, but are following social mores and rules rather than just allowing your heart and head to move you close, to chose, to love. I daresay that is why you broke it off with the older guy--because you are more interested in not being embarrassed??? than just loving him. If you two got along swell, then go with it. Why trade and go back into a learning curve with someone new? Your spiritual growth in astronomically enhanced by staying in relationships rather than moving into new ones.
Good luck to you.
Thats alot of intense questions to ask about someone you aren't interested in and only met twice
It looks so simple to me that you didn't even need to consult Yi did you. You aren't interested so whats to know ? Thats your answer isn't it ?
The 3>9 "why do i feel so oppressed by him ?" says it all......er because you don't want him and so feel he's pestering you.. 3.2 states clearly this isn't a time to accept proposals....and 3.6 its over before it even starts
What's interesting is you have pretty much discounted your own feelings.....since you are asking "will this be a romantic union ?" as if your own feelings count for nothing, almost as if you have no choice but to be involved.
ETA apologies for brusqueness but your post is giving a very mixed message......as in you aren't interested in him but want to know the long term potential of the relationship. I think you are jumping too far ahead with such questions since you currently aren't even interested. ....being uninterested what would you expect the long term potential to be ? hence you get answers that I think pretty much over shoot the question like 26.6.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).