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lablanche

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I have asked the I Ching what will happen in my life if i persue the relationship with X?
I got hex 63.1.3.5>2
Line 5 gives me trouble to get it right.On the whoke i have the feeling that the answer is rather positive. Any help with that, please?
 

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Hi there!
not an expert on this by any means but i'll give you my opinion...

63.1 seems to me that you should take things slow and not try to rush things or force things to happen

63.3 i understand it to mean be patient and cautious as things are still on fragile ground and one bad "mistake" could foul things up for good

63.5 beware of grand gestures as they are empty of true feeling and just for show or... don't expect grand gestures or big progress at least right away, take things a step at a time and be grateful for small progress as there is a lot of feeling behind the little things

overall, I think it is telling you it may be slow going and to count your blessings as they come but it sounds like if you are patient things may turn out they way you would like
I get the feeling the I ching is giving you advice here on how to make the relationship progress the way that you would like and how to pursue "X", rather than telling you what will happen in life if you pursue "X"
 

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Thank you.I think you are right.I asked What does X want from me, want me to do, and i got
24.2.5>60
Can you help me with that one,i does it mean go back to the realtionship or the opposite? I woul be happy with any help.
 

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were you previously involved with this person? You would know better given that you know the full circumstances. What I read from these lines is this:

24.2 be easy going and don't make demands or boss X around or make an ultimatum, let things evolve naturally. It also speaks to me of forgiving past hurts and letting go of your ego and pride

24.5 this line leads me to believe a sincere apology is needed? maybe something bad happened between you two and someone feels hurt?

as far as 60, the impression I get over this is to not restrain this person or try to control them in any way. It could also mean to limit what you yourself do as maybe it's not a good time to make a move yet It's hard to tell without knowing the background story. I hope this helps, but again it's just how I read the answer. I'm still learing new interpretations on the hexgarams all the time!
 

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Thank you Alev,looks very much like X.
Does anyone else have any other opinion? Can hex 60 also mean that the relationship came to its limit?
 

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