What role do we play in each others life and what is the potential?

[Icecoldkitkat]

Classic broken hearts stuff. Seeing this guy on and off for about half a year now. We started very intense but were too busy with life to create a good level of intimacy. It grew into friendship - which I thought is a good starting point for a long term romantic relationship - he thought the opposite. I'm taking some time (a month) away. I want to clear my head but he is so deeply engraved in my. It seemed like a no brainer - perfect person - made for each other thing. We were both reserved very much and not in the right place to commit for a long term, that I am working on right now. So I thought I'll ask what roles do we play in each others' lives. What role have I got in his - 18.2>52. Okay, this one totally puzzles me. It sais about the mother - I so love his mother and I think he doesn't treat her as she deserves and I want to her to be well. Is this what it is about? Probably not - I do really suck at readings ahaha... *sadface* Okay, next one What role does he play in my life? 27.2.4>38 This is about nourishment that is missing - he's there to make me understand what is that I want and need? Please any experiences with these two hexagrams would be greatly appreciated sorry about no paragraphs - not sure how to do them here

 

[Trojina]

sorry about no paragraphs - not sure how to do them here

Please do this

https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/forum-issues/

 

[Trojina]

Re the cast

Okay, next one What role does he play in my life? 27.2.4>38 This is about nourishment that is missing

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Yes. You had 38 somewhere else about him and you have said

. It grew into friendship - which I thought is a good starting point for a long term romantic relationship - he thought the opposite. I'm taking some time

So you really aren't on the same page. That's 38 right there. If you want intimacy and he doesn't then what can happen ?

he's there to make me understand what is that I want and need ?

Yes and at least you know what you want in line 4 and you might choose to go after it too.


So it's up to you whether to persist and pursue him or not.

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

He was the one who started it all okay, no pointy fingers... I was not taking it seriously, after a while he commented on no intimacy and said it doesn't feel right. I offered to go on a date (half-hearted), he withdrew for a while. Then he came back, we repeated the same pattern but a little bit better and ended up with the same result - apart from the fact that I started to fall in love - still not 100% ready for a commitment but I wouldn't admit it. He came back after about 6 weeks wanting to stay a night because there was something wrong with his house (excuse or friendship?!) Anyway that was the night before I was leaving for a month and he was not aware of that arrangement so I feel like I was the cause of more chaos now... But it's for the best. I feel like I'm getting more clear about what my needs are and hopefully, he does the same. Anyway, that's a great reply on the second reading, thank you Anyone ideas about 18.2>52?

 

[Icecoldkitkat]

I feel like I'm starting to understand what kind of questions to ask Yi. I asked - Why do I feel like we have unfinished business? Got 45.4.5>2 I feel like that's spot on - I understand 4th line as saying that we need to talk in person to define what is that is between us so that we are not confused anymore. The 5th line points out the previous luck of trust - no chance to built intimacy. He is a good friend to me now so if we want to either be friends or anything else we have to gain trust first. What do you think?