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What should I do regarding this person? 41.1.3 to 18

LuquiBeginner

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Hello, everyone! I come you for some help with a couple of hexagrams I found in my last reading.

During the last two months, I've been flirting with a certain girl in my class in college. At the beginning, everything seemed fine and she was, somehow, responding to my advances. With time, though, her interest declined a little. I asked her out for lunch once, she accepted and everything went fine. I've asked her out a couple of times more, but it seems she always has something to do and she has declined.

One day, a guy I know, who is her best friend, approached me and told me to try with a less complicated woman and that she didn't really want anything at the moment, that I'm not really up for a challenge so great. He also told me she's had some very bad love experiences and that she seems to be focused on her studies as of now.

This guy has been talking to me a lot and asking things regarding this matter from that moment on. I didn't really care about what he said because I'm truly convinced this girl is not out of my league and I told him so.

Yet, in the last couple of days I've been thinking about it. I haven't noticed any kind of response from her and, even though my advances have been very subtle and always respectful of her space and needs, she really doesn't seem interested anymore.

I asked the Oracle the following question: what should I do regarding this girl and how should I behave based on what has happened so far?

I got hexagram 41.1.3, which changes to hexagram 18. Would you kindly help me out with an interpretation? Thank you very much in advance :)

P.S: a month ago I asked the Oracle "what course of action should I take if I want to have a relationship with her?" And got hexagram 15.
 
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sitara

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I also received this Hexagram configuration concerning a relationship I’m curious about. I wonder if line 3 isn’t referring to that invasive friend who kept involving himself in your relationship with the gir. Maybe he is that third person who is being referred to. Maybe if you could have gotten him out of the way you could have a relation with the girl. This is all conjecture for me. But I think this line comes up when people are inserting themselves into your relationships. Maybe you can ask the Oracle what effect this busybody friend is having on your relationship with the girl. I mean maybe he’s advising her in a way that makes her less open to new love, or openly pushing her away from you.
 

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41.1 Decrease your attentions.
41.3 She already has a confidant.

18. Work on what has been spoiled.
These hexagrams don't show promise of a partnership but perhaps you are being advised that if you go back to being neutral you'll be able to recognize a chance to have a fresh start or at least be able to move through this unscathed.

15uc. Be yourself, focus on your job (studies) and in general be a decent guy.
 

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Hmmm... just realized this person posted back in October and didn't any responses until now. Hope he's still around...
 

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