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What should I do to make my love situation evolves ? 30.1>56

ymoshietsu

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Hello everyone, I asked the yi about that question " What should I do to make my love situation evolves ? " I'm single for a bit more that a year now and i don'k know what to do. The Yi answers 30.1>56 i looked into the forum but H30 confused me... To me the yi said stay in your path, be quiet and everything will go fine, don't put yourself in front of people, you need to be patient.. but with 56 does he advice me to move (meet people) ? everyday i meet a lot of people by my work and at the university and because i do many thing in life...Can you help me to see clearly what the yi wanted to say ? Sorry for my english, i tried my best ! Regards,Ymoshietsu
 
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I'm very much a beginner but will share my first impression of this reading (for what it's worth). :)

In general, I think your take on 30 makes sense. Be patient and sincere and the right one will come around and appreciate you.

I see both 30.1 and 56 as reflecting perhaps a lack of focus or direction. Maybe you haven't truly figured out what qualities you are looking for in a partner? They say you can't get what you want, if you don't know know what you want. ;)

Or maybe you've been so busy being busy (with work, school, etc.) that you are missing out on opportunities to really get to know someone at a deeper level?

I also read on inthefamilyway.org, that 56 can represent "inner self-restraint now leads to finding real directions in life." Maybe this means determine what is most important to you, be patient, and you will find what you are looking for? [I should listen to this advice! ha! ]
 

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Hi Laperdida, thx for your answer !Indeed I think this hexagram said that kind of thing " I have to be patient, honest ! " and the one will show herself. I know where I want to go in my life at least at work, at shool, my career. But for love I don't know.. I don't know where to look so I live my life at the present time... :) (In reality I think, trust life and you'll see) I don't think i'm busy but in my environment I don't see any woman I can have an attraction for. I think, one day you will find the one don't rush be open and what you have to do everyday..I meet a lot of women in the college at the hospital, but I don't find that kind of fire we can experiment when we do feel in love. I hope you understand what I tried to say If anyone else has something to add, be my guest :) Thx a lot hex 30 seems very difficult to understand
 
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What should I do to make my love situation evolves ?
30.1 > 56
, yes it reflects a lack of direction as you said. As long as you feel confused, and only take uncertain confusing steps, you'll keep ending up alone (56). So you need to re-evaluate this as described, and find a different approach.
 
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laperdida

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But for love I don't know.. I don't know where to look so I live my life at the present time...I meet a lot of women in the college at the hospital, but I don't find that kind of fire we can experiment when we do feel in love.

In my mind, what you said describes hexagram 56 very well! :) Essentially, you are 56: just traveling through, going about your daily life and meeting people as you go but not (yet) finding a "home" or clear direction. So you feel confused, but can choose to be patient and with your goal in mind (30.1).
 

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Hello ymoshietsu!

Hex 30 is Clarity, & its first line: "The footsteps are confused. If one is cautious, no blame." Hex 56 is "the Wanderer", "the Traveler".
You are at the beginning of your journey to clarity which is gained by passing trough confusion. It's OK for you not to exactly know what to do/want. You have to take the first steps.

Good luck!

*The italic parts are cited form James deKorne website.
 

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Thx you erveyone for your answers ! it is really helpful ! Finally the only way seems to be patient and keep faith that one day those first steps will pay even if they are confused ? Hex 31 is the next called " mutual attraction " So i'm on the good path even if it's a confused time ? I talk and meet a lot of people but what can I do more ? I think I must let go about love and see what's coming ? Focus on the problem keep to feed the problem...
 

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