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Hello,
Basically my girlfriend told me she went over with another friend out of town. (2 hours travel)
But there are still doubts and signs that shows she is with another guy.
I asked Yi ching if I went down to try her catch her and the other guy what will happen?
Was given Hexagram 28 line 1.
Could you all advise?
Dont know what to think anymore.
Thank you.
I tend to read 28.1 >> 43 as use extreme caution. If this were my reading I’d see it as, use extreme caution when making this decision. I might ask a follow up question such as: please give me a reflection of myself to see how balanced I was before resorting to any sort of sneak tactics. Especially if being found out could corrode my relationship. I also might ask: what do I need to know about this situation?
I’m sorry. I’m sort of terrible at reading for others but if it were me in your situation this is how I would approach it. Especially with the answer warning me to use extreme caution when making this decision.
I'm not an expert at all but I think it is speaking about your behaviour 28 is exceeding... I hope someone could clarify this!
28.1 Be extraordinarily cautious.
43. Make a decision.
Are you considering making a decision about whether to continue with the friendship because of your suspicions? Perhaps the I Ching is simply commenting that you are contemplating making this trip as a precaution to be sure your suspicions are correct before making a decision.
If we try to read it as an actual prediction as to what might happen it could mean you need to proceed carefully and you will find out what you need to know to make a decision. So are you prepared to make a decision based on what you find out? If you do find her with another guy what will you decide to do? If you don't will that put your suspicions to rest?
Hello.thank you for replying. It's an learning experience for me so I really appreciate it.
I asked the 2 questions..
Update : I went down to find her but I couldn't even find her. But I think that it was really good to ask those questions so I did.
I asked how balanced I am to handle anything from my girlfriend in my current state
And I receive hexagram 50 with changing line 4
I also asked what do I really need to know about this situation.
And I received hexagram 16 line 2
So sorry to bother u all but could I get more advice for this?
I would read 50.4 as not balanced at all. Your dignity is spoiled . I like to see 50 as a clear reservoir of nourishment so in this image your fears/doubts etc have spoiled you entirely. you are acting resorting to ways that will bring humiliation as 50.4 leads to 18 corruption.
If I received 16.2 I would see it as containing myself. Setting firm boundaries around myself to protect myself until the emotional chaos has passed and I could respond from a quieter more centered place.
I don’t know if I’m interpreting this correctly but it’s how I’d read it for myself.
notYi but as a friend. Is this pattern of fear response normal within you? If so I would ask the YI what you could do to release yourself from this pattern.i only ask because I wonder why not ask your Gf. I assume you love her and it’s safe to be vulnerable. Why not Sit her down and say, “I have all these fears welling up inside me. I don’t know if I’m being irrational but I feel like you’re meeting another man. Are you?” I just feel like if you’re building a relationship with someone keeping things transparent, and showing up as our best selves even if that is with vulnerability to our jealousy is the only way to build a strong foundation. I don’t mean to sound preachy or any of that. My heart just goes out to you. I understand jealousy and fear of loss. I am sorry if I overstepped though. I’m sending you so much love from the Caribbean. Good luck and I hope this is just a misunderstanding.
I would read 50.4 as not balanced at all. Your dignity is spoiled . I like to see 50 as a clear reservoir of nourishment so in this image your fears/doubts etc have spoiled you entirely. you are acting resorting to ways that will bring humiliation as 50.4 leads to 18 corruption.
If I received 16.2 I would see it as containing myself. Setting firm boundaries around myself to protect myself until the emotional chaos has passed and I could respond from a quieter more centered place.
I don’t know if I’m interpreting this correctly but it’s how I’d read it for myself.
notYi but as a friend. Is this pattern of fear response normal within you? If so I would ask the YI what you could do to release yourself from this pattern.i only ask because I wonder why not ask your Gf. I assume you love her and it’s safe to be vulnerable. Why not Sit her down and say, “I have all these fears welling up inside me. I don’t know if I’m being irrational but I feel like you’re meeting another man. Are you?” I just feel like if you’re building a relationship with someone keeping things transparent, and showing up as our best selves even if that is with vulnerability to our jealousy is the only way to build a strong foundation. I don’t mean to sound preachy or any of that. My heart just goes out to you. I understand jealousy and fear of loss. I am sorry if I overstepped though. I’m sending you so much love from the Caribbean. Good luck and I hope this is just a misunderstanding.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).