When will get a partner

[Pyramid]

Hello dear friends,

To my question "when will I get a partner?" I received 37.4 >13 from i-ching.
When then ???


:bows::bows::bows:

 

[Candid_X]

37.4 generally refers to being at the center of your home, which first of all is in the center of yourself. I'm not speaking of being self-centered in the egotistical sense but in the nourishment and caring sense. From there you can then share that axis of care with another who is receptive to receiving it, which can include the broader idea of fellowship with family, or oneness with another. Of course that significant other needs to return nourishment from their center as well for the relationship to endure.

Not the fortune cookie answer you may wish for but it's how I interpret your reading. I have also researched your previous questions, where this seems to be a recurring theme; one you've expressed not feeling comfortable with. So if this is to lead to partnership it must begin at home, within yourself.

I'm tempted to expand into the area of your animus, the male partner within, and the projection outward of that figure being who you see as your partner, but that may be considered straying off the path of your reading. So take it with a grain of salt for now if you're not at ease with the idea.

 

[Pyramid]

Candid_X I appreciate your interpretation.
Though I am convinced this is not the answer to my question. I have seen that I-ching is being simple in answering.

 

[diamanda]

Pyramid I totally understand the frustration which can lead someone to ask such a question (because I've been there myself). But imo, this is not a good question to ask, because it presupposes that you will one day find a partner - which is never a guaranteed event to happen.

In any case, your answer says that once somebody has more than solved the issue of survival (37.4 - having a rich home), then they can go out and mingle (13). So the way it sounds to me is, sort out survival first, then go after procreation Or, if you prefer a more spiritual spin, once somebody is already a rich person within, all they need to do is go out and mingle.

Svenrus has a very interesting system of answering 'when' questions (see here for his pdf). Let us know if you decide to give that a go!

 

[Pyramid]

Pyramid I totally understand the frustration which can lead someone to ask such a question (because I've been there myself). But imo, this is not a good question to ask, because it presupposes that you will one day find a partner - which is never a guaranteed event to happen.

In any case, your answer says that once somebody has more than solved the issue of survival (37.4 - having a rich home), then they can go out and mingle (13). So the way it sounds to me is, sort out survival first, then go after procreation Or, if you prefer a more spiritual spin, once somebody is already a rich person within, all they need to do is go out and mingle.

Svenrus has a very interesting system of answering 'when' questions (see here for his pdf). Let us know if you decide to give that a go!

Diamanda,

Thank you for your fuzzy response.
Actually that's the magic of Iching I mentioned: I am currently looking for a home (Survival 101)

 

[moss elk]

I am currently looking for a home (Survival 101)

More backstory/ details sure make things easier to see:
Sometime after you are in your new home.
Which is really great to know, so you can devote yourself to step 1, finding a new place to live.

 

[Pyramid]

You are right Moss Elk,
just that, imagine I started my story like this:
I am currently looking for a long-term flat so I asked the i-ching "when will I get a partner"
(kidding)
Yes that's great to know and since I have to move soon, even better

Wish me luck...

 

[Pyramid]

Svenrus has a very interesting system of answering 'when' questions (see here for his pdf). Let us know if you decide to give that a go!

I took a look at the file you suggested. Roughly speaking in two months (calculating the day was out of my patience/precision scope).

Thank you