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deepstillwater
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Who would you rather be? 62.2>32 (meet up with an ex-boyfriend) or 6.4>59 (not to go)
Hello,
Recently I've shared about long term relationship that broke up after six years. The sad thing about this break up is (as I have felt, and as others have told me too) that it is clear we still both love and care for one another. Until recently, I thought it was likely we would get back together: we were still talking, friendly and communicating. However recently he told me that he has started seeing someone, which devastated me.
I had suggested that we meet halfway in a small town on 12 July because there is an exhibition there of Scottish immigrant photos etc (his family background is Scottish, and he feels a strong connection there).
Now I am worried as I do still love him and feelings for him, and the day would be lovely and nice but then I would feel devastated that he didn't call me afterwards or want to see me again. Particularly if he is seeing someone else. I am needing to look after myself.
What would be the outcome of going to meet x on 12 July?
62.2 > 32
The hairs stood up on the back of my neck when I got this.
Six in the second place means:
She passes by her ancestor
And meets her ancestress.
He does not reach his prince
And meets the official.
No blame.
Two exceptional situations are instanced here. In the temple of ancestors,
where alternation of generations prevails, the grandson stands on the same
side as the grandfather. Hence his closest relations are with the grandfather.
The present line designates the grandson's wife, who during the sacrifice
passes by the ancestor and goes toward the ancestress. This unusual behavior
is, however, an expression of her modesty. She ventures rather to approach
the ancestress, for she feels related to her by their common sex. Hence here
deviation from the rule is not a mistake.
Another image is that of the official who, in compliance with regulation,
first seeks an audience with his prince. If he is not successful in this, he does
not try to force anything but goes about conscientious fulfillment of his duty,
taking his place among the other officials. This extraordinary restraint is
likewise not a mistake in exceptional times. (The rule is that every official
should first have an audience with the prince by whom he is appointed. Here
the appointment is made by the minister.)
What would be the outcome if I do not go on 12 July?
6.4>59
Nine in the fourth place means:
One cannot engage in conflict.
One turns back and submits to fate,
Changes one's attitude,
And finds peace in perseverance.
Good fortune.
This refers to a person whose inner attitude at first lacks peace. He does not
feel content with his situation and would like to improve it through conflict.
In contrast tot the situation of the nine in the second place, he is dealing with
a weaker opponent and might therefore succeed. But he cannot carry on the
fight, because, since right is not on his side, he cannot justify the conflict to
his conscience. Therefore he turns back and accepts his fate. He changes his
mind and finds lasting peace in being at one with eternal law. This brings
good fortune.
I understand this to mean that it would be best to let this go. To step back from this person. That it would bring me peace.
I have asked ching what would be the best way to act/behave towards x?
And received 7.4.5, which is a very clear indication to retreat 7.4 although I don't quite understand 7.5. Does it mean wait for the right time to move forward, or does it mean use your intellect (eldest) to control your emotions (youngest).
Thanks for your thoughts
deep
Hello,
Recently I've shared about long term relationship that broke up after six years. The sad thing about this break up is (as I have felt, and as others have told me too) that it is clear we still both love and care for one another. Until recently, I thought it was likely we would get back together: we were still talking, friendly and communicating. However recently he told me that he has started seeing someone, which devastated me.
I had suggested that we meet halfway in a small town on 12 July because there is an exhibition there of Scottish immigrant photos etc (his family background is Scottish, and he feels a strong connection there).
Now I am worried as I do still love him and feelings for him, and the day would be lovely and nice but then I would feel devastated that he didn't call me afterwards or want to see me again. Particularly if he is seeing someone else. I am needing to look after myself.
What would be the outcome of going to meet x on 12 July?
62.2 > 32
The hairs stood up on the back of my neck when I got this.
Six in the second place means:
She passes by her ancestor
And meets her ancestress.
He does not reach his prince
And meets the official.
No blame.
Two exceptional situations are instanced here. In the temple of ancestors,
where alternation of generations prevails, the grandson stands on the same
side as the grandfather. Hence his closest relations are with the grandfather.
The present line designates the grandson's wife, who during the sacrifice
passes by the ancestor and goes toward the ancestress. This unusual behavior
is, however, an expression of her modesty. She ventures rather to approach
the ancestress, for she feels related to her by their common sex. Hence here
deviation from the rule is not a mistake.
Another image is that of the official who, in compliance with regulation,
first seeks an audience with his prince. If he is not successful in this, he does
not try to force anything but goes about conscientious fulfillment of his duty,
taking his place among the other officials. This extraordinary restraint is
likewise not a mistake in exceptional times. (The rule is that every official
should first have an audience with the prince by whom he is appointed. Here
the appointment is made by the minister.)
What would be the outcome if I do not go on 12 July?
6.4>59
Nine in the fourth place means:
One cannot engage in conflict.
One turns back and submits to fate,
Changes one's attitude,
And finds peace in perseverance.
Good fortune.
This refers to a person whose inner attitude at first lacks peace. He does not
feel content with his situation and would like to improve it through conflict.
In contrast tot the situation of the nine in the second place, he is dealing with
a weaker opponent and might therefore succeed. But he cannot carry on the
fight, because, since right is not on his side, he cannot justify the conflict to
his conscience. Therefore he turns back and accepts his fate. He changes his
mind and finds lasting peace in being at one with eternal law. This brings
good fortune.
I understand this to mean that it would be best to let this go. To step back from this person. That it would bring me peace.
I have asked ching what would be the best way to act/behave towards x?
And received 7.4.5, which is a very clear indication to retreat 7.4 although I don't quite understand 7.5. Does it mean wait for the right time to move forward, or does it mean use your intellect (eldest) to control your emotions (youngest).
Thanks for your thoughts
deep