Why am I so drawn to helpings daughter

[butterfly spider]

I have just discovered the online casting. Good in a way but not quite familiar with it

I asked why I feel I have to help my very poorly mentally ill daughter ages 22. I got 36 to 4
I asked why am I impelled to really try and help her. I got 18 to 4

I am really feeling positive - have stepped back to be with my son (aged 15). Things are going well. I feel well and he is happy. ...

However my daughter wants to leave hospital (she has been there 4 weeks. She says that she cannot cope there anymore. The diagnosis is unclear - and I have withdrawn my energies from it all.

You see somewhere I know that there is a key to this. I so think that something needs sorting but what and how. ....

I would like someone just to enlighten me on the readings ... On just to see how best to move on

My sense is that I need to let things evolve naturally here ...

 

[butterfly spider]

Actually this was the wrong question. The change to 4 each time is saying - not you again asking the same old question - you stupid girl get a grip!! You know the answer to this so dont ask me again ... Using the online castings is too easy. Opening my cupboard getting the box unwrapping the coins finding a pen a flat surface and my glasses requires more effort and time to focus....

The question I needed to ask was how best can I help my daughter - now that I have stepped aside and pulled back from the situation. I asked this question just now I got 12.1,5 to 21 Yes - saying no and getting to the nitty gritty then ..(I got 12.1 6 the other day too.)

It's useful posting a thread as you see your question in black and white staring back at you and you have a clearer notion of the reading.

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[goddessliss]

The fact is we are mummas and we just want to fix anything that is upsetting, hurting or whatever our children, that's why you want to keep helping her, but your second reading talks about the need to 'let go and let god' as the saying goes.
I understand what're going through - I have two sons who both suffer from anxiety at some level at different times and I feel helpless to help them but I also know they are the only ones that can choose to help themselves as they're adults now but it still hurts my heart.

If they ring me or ask for help I will listen and give my opinion but other than that it's up to them.

- Liss

 

[butterfly spider]

Just returned to this thread
My daughter is doing really well - without my everyday involvement and we have spent a wonderful few hours together. My help was actually through me 'not helping' and letting her heal herself
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