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EstrelaGuia87
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Hello everyone!!
In December of 2016 I met a young man who was introduced by a couple of uncles who thought we would be perfect for each other hehe. We were both a long time alone ... no serious love relationships. We became friends and after about 8 weeks he said he was falling in love with me and asked if I would accept to be his girlfriend. I did not accept it because I thought it was too soon for that (deep down I was scared, after all, I was scared to suffer for 5 years without being seriously related to someone), we continued communicating and again he said he would like me to go your girlfriend. This time I accepted and we were very happy, but now it is that hehe problem begins. That was on a Saturday, Sunday was all beautiful, and in the days that followed too. We were very anxious for the next Saturday because we would have our first "romantic" date of boyfriends, we would talk every day and every day things would be better between us, but on Friday (6 days after the request) I woke up with a bad feeling ... as if there was something bad approaching this situation, like: "It was too good to be true." He treated me just like I had in the previous days but I was a little sad. Apparently everything was normal but I knew I was not. I asked him if anything had happened and he said no, and that he was just a bit mentally tired because there had been a problem in the company where he works and that ended up bringing more work and problems for him to solve. On Saturday morning he was stranger yet, but seemingly normal as in previous days. In the afternoon he did not contact me and I then called him to find out about our meeting and to my surprise he said that he was very tired and that he did not feel like leaving and that he also had a little discussion with his mother in the morning . I was shocked by what I was hearing. It was all perfect, I accepted the request for relationship with a guy who showed with attitudes that he was in love with me and then in 7 days (it seems like a spell thing hahaha) he acts like that? I was so shocked I did not even discuss it, just said okay and hung up. I was feeling terrible ... hours later he sent me a picture lying down watching TV and with an expression of who had just returned from a wake, so sad that he was. At dawn, I was on facebook and a photo appeared in which he was tagged and it was his at a party with friends, and the party had been on Saturday afternoon, that is, hours before. I was very angry, I finished the relationship that had just begun. He automatically treated me as before and did not want the relationship to end. At that moment I realized how passionate I was and I suffered and suffered too much. Well, it's October and we do not see each other again, but I can not forget it. Last month he came to me for whatsapp, we talked to him and told him he just wanted to know what really happened and why he acted the way he did. He says that he does not know the reason, but that he would like to repair the evil he caused me, and when I say that the only way is him telling me what motivated him to stay with me and do what he does, he recoils. In this last months I always dream of a voice telling me that I need to find out the truth and that there is a woman who does not accept it with anyone and always disturbs his life. I was able to find out that there is an ex of him from the teenage years that until today is in love with him, but he does not like her ... it was the most I could find out. I know this story has no future, but I really want to find out what really happened. I asked Iching the following questions: What made him not want to be with me any more during the weekend? 43.3.6> 11
What could happen between me and him in the coming months? 51.3.5> 49
(I understood that a radical change could provoke a shock)
After this shock and radical change, what relationship will there be between us? 58.5.6>38
As I talked about the situation and the readings, how would you interpret what actually happened and could it happen ???
Thanks for your attention and apologies for my poor english (I'm Brazilian)
In December of 2016 I met a young man who was introduced by a couple of uncles who thought we would be perfect for each other hehe. We were both a long time alone ... no serious love relationships. We became friends and after about 8 weeks he said he was falling in love with me and asked if I would accept to be his girlfriend. I did not accept it because I thought it was too soon for that (deep down I was scared, after all, I was scared to suffer for 5 years without being seriously related to someone), we continued communicating and again he said he would like me to go your girlfriend. This time I accepted and we were very happy, but now it is that hehe problem begins. That was on a Saturday, Sunday was all beautiful, and in the days that followed too. We were very anxious for the next Saturday because we would have our first "romantic" date of boyfriends, we would talk every day and every day things would be better between us, but on Friday (6 days after the request) I woke up with a bad feeling ... as if there was something bad approaching this situation, like: "It was too good to be true." He treated me just like I had in the previous days but I was a little sad. Apparently everything was normal but I knew I was not. I asked him if anything had happened and he said no, and that he was just a bit mentally tired because there had been a problem in the company where he works and that ended up bringing more work and problems for him to solve. On Saturday morning he was stranger yet, but seemingly normal as in previous days. In the afternoon he did not contact me and I then called him to find out about our meeting and to my surprise he said that he was very tired and that he did not feel like leaving and that he also had a little discussion with his mother in the morning . I was shocked by what I was hearing. It was all perfect, I accepted the request for relationship with a guy who showed with attitudes that he was in love with me and then in 7 days (it seems like a spell thing hahaha) he acts like that? I was so shocked I did not even discuss it, just said okay and hung up. I was feeling terrible ... hours later he sent me a picture lying down watching TV and with an expression of who had just returned from a wake, so sad that he was. At dawn, I was on facebook and a photo appeared in which he was tagged and it was his at a party with friends, and the party had been on Saturday afternoon, that is, hours before. I was very angry, I finished the relationship that had just begun. He automatically treated me as before and did not want the relationship to end. At that moment I realized how passionate I was and I suffered and suffered too much. Well, it's October and we do not see each other again, but I can not forget it. Last month he came to me for whatsapp, we talked to him and told him he just wanted to know what really happened and why he acted the way he did. He says that he does not know the reason, but that he would like to repair the evil he caused me, and when I say that the only way is him telling me what motivated him to stay with me and do what he does, he recoils. In this last months I always dream of a voice telling me that I need to find out the truth and that there is a woman who does not accept it with anyone and always disturbs his life. I was able to find out that there is an ex of him from the teenage years that until today is in love with him, but he does not like her ... it was the most I could find out. I know this story has no future, but I really want to find out what really happened. I asked Iching the following questions: What made him not want to be with me any more during the weekend? 43.3.6> 11
What could happen between me and him in the coming months? 51.3.5> 49
(I understood that a radical change could provoke a shock)
After this shock and radical change, what relationship will there be between us? 58.5.6>38
As I talked about the situation and the readings, how would you interpret what actually happened and could it happen ???
Thanks for your attention and apologies for my poor english (I'm Brazilian)