why do I feel like I am being sucked in a whirpool of this relationship 64.4

[eyedrian]

I've met this girl some time ago, but I had doubts as she's probably looking for something way too serious for me right now. We talked again and I had this weird feeling talking to her, so I asked iching what's going on, why do i feel like like I am being sucked into this relationship despite my doubts.
Resulting hexagram was 64.4>4 and i really don't get it..

"Now it is the time of struggle. The transition must be completed. We must make ourselves strong in resolution; this brings good fortune. All misgivings that might arise in such grave times of struggle must be silenced. It is a question of a fierce battle to break and to discipline the Devil's Country, the forces of decadence. But the struggle also has its reward. Now is the time to lay the foundations of power and mastery for the future"

 

[moss elk]

the forces of decadence...

There is nothing about decadence in this line. Where is that commentary from?

Gee, if Yi gave me 64.4 about a romantic interest..... I'm not sure I would stick around.

 

[Willem D]

Hi Eyedrian,

why do i feel like like I am being sucked into this relationship despite my doubts

This sounds to me as: 'something else' has controle over me, I am out of controle.
You probably know the phrase "the Devil made me do it"

I think the Yi is referring to that in its answer.

Legge: The fourth line, dynamic, shows its subject by firm correctness obtaining good fortune, so that all occasion for repentance disappears. Let him stir himself up, as if he were invading the Demon region, where for three years rewards will come to him and his troops from the great kingdom.

Take back controle as if you were fighting the Devil.

It seems to me that the Yi is giving you a little kick in the butt.
"Get your act together (64)and take back controle(64.4) and don't behave ignorant (4), then everything will be alright ".

Hope this will help!

 

[marybluesky]

I see it as:
There's an unknown resistance in you which should be overcome through time, and this relationship offers you the opportunity to do so.

 

[eyedrian]

Hi Eyedrian,

This sounds to me as: 'something else' has controle over me, I am out of controle.
You probably know the phrase "the Devil made me do it"

I think the Yi is referring to that in its answer.

Take back controle as if you were fighting the Devil.

It seems to me that the Yi is giving you a little kick in the butt.
"Get your act together (64)and take back controle(64.4) and don't behave ignorant (4), then everything will be alright ".

Hope this will help!

Heh, I got The Devil in place meant for my feelings when I did a tarot relationship spread.
I mean she's a good, cute girl, but I kinda feel like she could get hurt because of how I view relationships right now, and I told her so but she sticks around and likes me even more.