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why have i never been blessed with marriage?

hopex

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a friend spoke of her sorrow at never having a child
and as I looked at my happily married ex partners on
facebook - i saw my wound at love never growing to
marriage and asked Yi why it never happened to me

50.2.4 > 52:bows:
 

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Hi, I kinda had that q. in my mind for the last few days, borrow it maybe?
In the crucial moment, they bailed out - did not see how much you had to offer or your expectations or ideas about relationship at time were not the same. Perhaps you pushed some away?
But things change. You are considering the possibility of marriage now perhaps.
 

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Hi, I kinda had that q. in my mind for the last few days, borrow it maybe?
In the crucial moment, they bailed out - did not see how much you had to offer or your expectations or ideas about relationship at time were not the same. Perhaps you pushed some away?
But things change. You are considering the possibility of marriage now perhaps.

well yes dragona - better late than never. i see you kept your avatar which i always liked
 

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Maybe the answer is basically astrological and it might have to do with your location. For example, in my chart it says that in my current location I would find a husband but it would be difficult to make friends with people here -- and all that has proved to be true.
 

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Hopex

There is not a lot here that I can go on, as it would require knowing you, and based on this post alone I don't know if you are male or female, although if I take the time to look at other posts of yours I might know. The social rules, and the social customs are different for men and women. We react to things differently, but for men, it seems to be very detrimental to appear to be a loner. I personally think loners get a bad rap because they can be loners because they can't fit in, or loners because they are more mature than the crowd. There are two different kinds.

I get the feeling that you are not super inclined to heavy socialization when hexagram fifty two comes up. It is said that "he goes into his courtyard and does not see his people." Hexagram fifty line four speaks of a situation where "he enters a field in which he is not adequate."

I get the feeling that you must make more of an effort to find social outlets that are appropriate for you, and then work in the group in some capacity that draws attention to your achievements and qualities.

I don't know if this helps much, but I don't have a lot to go on.

Gene
 

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Actually, it appears that you are female, and the same rules do not apply. Men don't really care if you are a loner if they do not sense any emotional imbalance. They will react however, if they feel they are being pressured into a relationship. Nevertheless, I do think that the same thing applies to you here as a female to a certain extent, in needing to get out more.

Gene
 

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