Why he takes his distance?

[musidora]

Need help! Hi dear reader, I've been dating this guy I'm very in love with. It's always very good for both of us when we are together, I know. He is in a dificult financial situation, living with his parents and without a job. And he stays some days in silence, what makes me very anxious... why is that? I took 58.1.2.6 - 12. Could you bring me some light?

 

[Pallas]

Hi musidora,

The 58 refers to your interaction. Line 1 and 2 describes your interactions as joyous. You are like 2 lakes filling each other and keeping each other fruition drying up. Do you spend a lot of time talking? Maybe this distracts him from his current situation.

The last line, 6, makes me worry that this situation may becoming a seduction or fantasy from reality for him. I am not sure if this relationship is sexual but line 6 had that potential aspect of getting dragged down by sexual pleasures or possibly he is having fantasies. This line might explain why he is distancing himself.

The 12 could also be referring to the environment regarding line 6. I would talk to him about why he is pulling back since to is good for sharing.

Best luck. BTW I am not very experienced at this, only about 1 year, so take it with a grain of salt.

 

[musidora]

Dear Beloia,
Thanks for your answer! In fact when we met and it was like a big atracction and indeed the relationship has a strong sexual component, but I feel it is bigger that sex. We enjoy tanking but we dont talk thaaaat much. As I said, he is living at his parents, with no money and I feel that can be something that takes off his courage to go deepper, to make a move. Than this silence... And I would like him do be confortable and wouldn`t like him to feel under pression so I wait for him to call me. We live in diferent towns so I am here just for 10 days. Last time we saw each other was thursday, than I asked I ching If I should call him and I had: 29.2.4 -> 45. So I understand I should wait and not fear... Anyway, I very much thank you for your answer, I`m not so experienced either, but it`s great to exange! Best regards and excuse-me any english mistakes!

 

[Pallas]

Musidora,

It looks like you are doing well with the second reading. Please let us know how things work out.

Your English had been fine to read.