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alev

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I had a fight with my guy, it was my fault but it was actually a pretty minor thing in my opinion and I have apologized. The apology was not accepted and he refuses to speak with me and I am baffled. Baffled, because I don't understand why it is such a big deal. I basically accused him of cheating, which he denied. There were some angry words thrown out and I was crying but I also told him I love him and don't want to lose him. Which is apparently what I've gone and done. I don't understand why he feels this is serious enough to end things so I asked,

"why is it he is still so angry with me" and the answer was 61.5-->41
this line has always represented love in my past readings so I am not sure why it came up in this context unless I read it as he is upset that I told him I love him and don't want to lose him so he freaked out and decreased me (41)??

for confirmation I asked "Is the reason he was so upset due to the fact that I told him Ilove him?" and received 30.5-->13
ouch, I guess this represents me crying and gaining a sudden moment of clarity in thought that this is in fact the reason he has walked

Is this pretty much how I should be reading this? I know at the end of the day these readings are pointless in the grand scheme of things (he's gone), but trying to tell my heart that it doesn't need to know WHY is not that easy
 

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hey Alev...

the problem why is he upset... have to do with - " I basically accused him of cheating, which he denied - "
this is not a minor thing, these statements diminish a person like 41!

I don't think that the problem is due to the fact that you say to love him!
the fifth line of 30 isn't positive, is just a way used from IC, to say you that this in not the motive... the fact that you say to love him.. could be a part of the problem... but just because at the same time you diminish him with your accuse!

hope to help

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Hi Patro,
I do appreciate your comments but I should add some additional background here...during the fight was the first time I said those words to him and he angrily replied that I DO NOT LOVE HIM.
Also, I am not entirely convinced of his innocense either, although I have no solide evidence, only a hunch
I did some digging through old posts about 30 line 5 and in several threads I saw people write that this line was like a moment of clarity (me seeing the truth) and being sad about it so that it was helped me to see this as a confirmation...

I also did a follow up question for myself asking What is best thing should I do now about this and received hex 54.2.5-->17
I feel like this seems to also add that my initial suspicions may have been accurate...so maybe i am better off
 

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please understand that the advice of the IC is related to your question, to the background of your question and so on!
to give a look in other reading can't bring you a real answer or clarity!
you must see past similar post as a start point!

about 54-> 17 you asked: What is best thing should I do now about this...?
54 is your actual situation! you feel subject, not primary in his life!
follow this way at time (17) you need to adapt to the situation, you not must pretend to much! and all will find a solution!
 

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Hi Alev
"why is it he is still so angry with me" and the answer was 61.5-->41
You've really,really hit him right in a tender spot and it's hurt him more than you can appreciate. Every negative comment we make takes about 30 good deed to put right and that's only for mild misdemeanours. That's why it's taking him a long while.

What is best thing should I do now about this and received hex 54.2.5-->17
Start to see things from a different perspective, put yourself in his shoes if you can and get a grasp on what the relationship and he is going through. Look at how you are positioning yourself and then see if this is the best for you. Then adjust the situation as you see most fitting to follow.

It's obviously a difficult time for you here and you might want to remember that in situations like this doing what is right for you, rather than the other person, can bring dividends.

Be Well
Mike
 

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