Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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Sensitive meaning so quick to anger, takes things way to personally.
Sooo-I agree, not all of 1 is noble. I think he does use being taunted as an excuse for his emotional outlet, in which he has only himself to blame because, he sets himself up for it and gets off remaining below/low.
Pocossin-Thats true thats what he would like of me 24/7 haha he would like to see other people while I see no one. I have always been the submissive one.Perhaps though not latley because I am seeking more friendship & the act is getting old. I have had to deal with some traumatic life experiences latley & naturally require deeper affection/connections. This has been manifesting naturally around me too in all facets of my relationships with people.
Asking about someone .. Sensitive meaning so quick to anger,takes things way to personally. I do want to understand this more cause, after all he is my friend & care about him deeply.
I am searching for fresh perspectives & insights into this Hex 44.1 & how it correlates with my friend's behavior. Thanks
Patro~I never bother him. I just want to figure out why he cant be more friendly, because if he cant than it will never go any where & I will continue to see other people & hope to find something more close & intimate, too bad tho cause the sex was great. I believe it could be even better if we were close friends, but he desires an ultimate eccentric, fetish lifestyle I suppose.
Anemos- We have had an alternative "fetish" relationship, I being the submissive one (if you get my drift) Something I needed to explore inside myself. I told him he could control me in bed,but not in real life. Is it getting hot in here.. Haha. just shedding some more light on it all. We have a had many discussions about this. His controlling nature & attitude is not the healthy type of control & I know it is in other of his relationships as well too. I think he is controlled alot by his family , especially his mother .
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sorry i simply answer to the above expressed question.... and i never says that you bother your friend.... i think that the one that finally will be bothered are you... if you try to help your friend... in the way you are thinking.
also it seams, from your explanation, and the hexagrams that he is looking for love from your side
got it there are many different views about which is the right form of such relationships but to me, your well being must be a main priority for him. In Yi words, "to rule is to serve" . Not everybody can do that.
hope things will be better or will make it better
take care
Pocossin-Thats true thats what he would like of me 24/7 haha he would like to see other people while I see no one. I have always been the submissive one. . .
I wasn't recommending that you play doormat but, since you are the Wise Owl in the relationship, that you manage it more subtly. "subtly - So slight as to be difficult to detect or describe; elusive." Below Mr. Sensitive's threshold of perception.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).