Widows in my Family: 4.3 to 18 and 4.2 to 23

[Fanofenka]

My grandma became a widow 10+ years ago, a few weeks before I started high school. My aunt became a widow 8+ years ago. Both events affected them negatively. Becoming a widow as a senior doesn't hurt one more than becoming a widow young.

How has a grandma changed after becoming a widow back in late August 2010? 4.3 Not Knowing/Youthful Folly/Immaturity to 18 Corruption/Work on what has been Spoiled/Decay/Misfortunes to Endure.
4.3 refers to my grandma being her.
Is it saying that she is naive of the passing (4) that she will be mourning (18)?

How has my aunt changed after becoming a widow back in late January 2013? 4.2 Not Knowing/Youthful Folly/Immaturity to 23 Stripping Away/Splitting Apart/Falling/Decay/Overthrow.
4.2 refers to my cousins taking the burden from her.
Is it saying that she is naive of the passing (4) that she will distance herself from the past (23)?

Why am I getting hex 4 as the first hex?

 

[Trojina]

My grandma became a widow 10+ years ago, a few weeks before I started high school. My aunt became a widow 8+ years ago. Both events affected them negatively.

Well the death of a husband would affect any woman negatively unless she disliked him.

Is it saying that she is naive of the passingti

What does that mean 'naive of the passing'


I'd imagine this 4 refers to you. I don't know what you are doing and I'm not sure you do.

Is it saying that she is naive of the passing (4) that she will be mourning (18)?

Hardly need to divine that a woman may be mourning after her husband's death.....


Why are you asking this ?

 

[Trojina]

Why am I getting hex 4 as the first hex?

Because you are the young fool ?

 

[Trojina]

Is it saying that she is naive of the passing (4)

Is English your second language ?

 

[Fanofenka]

Is English your second language ?

What I meant is the passing of their spouses.

 

[Trojina]

I know you meant that, I have gathered that much, but I didn't know what 'she is naive of the passing' meant, it doesn't seem to make sense in English.


You wouldn't generally say

Is it saying that she is naive of the passing

in English. The nearest I can think of to that meaning would be 'is it saying that she doesn't know about the passing' but obviously she does know her husband died so what does it mean 'she is naive of the passing' ?

I thought if English were your second language that would explain the communication problem.


To be naive means to be inexperienced, unaware, innocent of...so your sentence is saying she is unaware of the death ? That doesn't make sense she must be aware so I'm wondering what you meant.

 

[Trojina]

There is no point in posting threads here all the time when you don't communicate. I asked a simple question about what you meant and you just thanked me while totally ignoring me. I see you now posted yet another 'megaman thread'. I think these threads are just a complete waste of time.