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I agree that it doesn't depend much on you. Bullies bully, and even if we set boundaries to stop them attacking us, they will still try to cross them over and over again. It's constant hard work to hang out with such people. When I suggested rethinking the situation, I meant it more along the lines of finding a different environment to socialise. For example, do you have any hobbies, could you join a group related to your hobbies? Having a common interest or goal (other than partying) could potentially create a much better social environment for you. Just an idea. Of course as you say this is an experience, sure, but you don't have to remain stuck in it, you're a free person.What happened with your friends?
When I workout I usually dont meet anybody there...potentially, girls avoid me and boys look distracted. Also in other places boys dont even notice me, unless i dont like them. Lol. It is all like that. I thought I could have been friends with new neighbours but I rarely see them (it seems like a prank). My friends....the ones left focus a lot on themselves. I agree with your theories by the way.I am starting to be antisocial xD
 

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As if it wasnt enough, the one u said sounded like bullism, is now " stalking" me on social media.
 

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My friends are all talking about their need of a "boyfriend" (if we can call it like that), and im getting anxious every time they do it because i actually have waited way for too long. Saying too long is too nice... It is not natural what I lived, I want to put an end to it. So, to resume the lines of the Yi casting, nothing ever happens because only bad opportunities arise?
 

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If you're not satisfied with your situation maybe you can ask something like "What prevents me from having a boyfriend?"
 
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That's the definition of the term 'peer pressure'! I don't think you've waited too long, because you've been interested in the subject for quite some time now - it's not like you're just sitting on a rocking chair and not giving a damn. I agree with you that so far only bad opportunities happened. Relationships are (not only but) largely a matter of luck.

It is not natural what I lived
Could you please clarify this?
 

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That's the definition of the term 'peer pressure'! I don't think you've waited too long, because you've been interested in the subject for quite some time now - it's not like you're just sitting on a rocking chair and not giving a damn. I agree with you that so far only bad opportunities happened. Relationships are (not only but) largely a matter of luck.Could you please clarify this?
Well, they dont wait that much and i wouldnt have waited that much either! Bah i would talk of peer pressure if i was 13-15 years old, but it is very far away... I have never been happy in this situation, but they are less selective than me on people. I guess this is the only one reason. Luck is always given to those who waste it xD
 

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If you're not satisfied with your situation maybe you can ask something like "What prevents me from having a boyfriend?"
I can ask it :) I want to know if it is something wrong like luck/destiny or if it is me
 

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Here we go, "Why can't I find someone I like? Why nothing ever happens? " Unchanging 54. Oh dear, an answer more horrible than the other one. Thunder over the lake...
 

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"Why can't I find someone I like? Why nothing ever happens? " Unchanging 54.

You're not in a proper position to ask what you want (I remember you had received 54 before for similar questions).You have your own rules that can't be exerted now. It's not your fault. Other readings of this thread indicated it, too. Let it be for a while.
 

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"Why can't I find someone I like? Why nothing ever happens? " Unchanging 54. You're not in a proper position to ask what you want (I remember you had received 54 before for similar questions).You have your own rules that can't be exerted now. It's not your fault. Other readings of this thread indicated it, too. Let it be for a while.
Well good to know I have nothing wrong (so maybe its my friends and society to be wrong, lol, go to prove it xD)Thanks Mary... I'd probably keep on defendin myself from " stalkers in love" lol and feelinh lonely
 

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