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Will he contact me on Monday? and Yi's answer, 49.1.3.5 to 16.

Amandam

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HI all,
I really hope someone will finally help me today.... getting quite desperate now....

It seems to me this is a very positive response, with new energies arising and new ways of approach.

Anyone can give me more insight as to what Yi is trying to tell me?

Thank you to anyone who will give me his advise.
 

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Well I think it is a bit more involved than you imagine. In 49.1 people are not ready and 49.3 generally indicates one has to wait for everyone else to approve of or see the wisdom in a proposed move. Of course in 49.5 nothing can get in the way. Your yang pattern here is 63, yin pattern 64 and so I feel that while you see this as a sort of 'done deal', actually there is more consultation with others needed.

Overall it does seem to auger well but I am wondering if this person must wait on others approval or advice and so cannot just go ahead and help you himself without first receiving approval and confirmation from others.

I imagine it is likely a process of consultation is underway and you will hear shortly.
 

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Well he decided to take a 3 weeks time off, to try and get some clarity in his feelings. I am afraid he will just not contact me anymore ( I would be happy if you could check all my other threads if you have time.... ). Not sure who he could be seeking approval from. He is actually quite a self assured man....

But maybe he is asking help or advise from his friends ( or best friend? ). I am just happy to be able to talk to him and have some clarity. Not knowing what is going on is very difficult.

Thank you for your great new approach. I will think about this ( and will let you know what happens on Monday 15, that is when we should talk.... )
 

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Ah I misunderstood your first post so when you said


I really hope someone will finally help me today.... getting quite desperate now....

I thought you meant you were waiting for his help in some kind of business sense. Didn't realise it was about a personal relationship.

Well the 49.3 may indicate he is going over and over it in his mind...like an inner debate.

I'd never like to promise anything re relationship questions though. Generally I say the only one to get the truth from is the person themselves.

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Well he decided to take a 3 weeks time off, to try and get some clarity in his feelings. I am afraid he will just not contact me anymore

How nice of him :rolleyes: I don't know why people tolerate this kind of thing..I wouldn't wait around for someone to decide how they feel ..neither should you ! If he wants you he better make his mind up fast as otherwise you have plenty of other better options and you can't afford to wait for this dozy drip to decide if he wants you or not ! Jeez don't let anyone put you in this position !


That aside it looks like he is debating inwardly over and over his options blah blah. It's time you did 49.5 and changed like a tiger...rather than waiting around for someone's judgement on you.

Can't look at other threads as you can see I've not much patience with this kind of thing. Talk to the person not the I Ching. It's time you made some decisions. Maybe the answer is about that more than what he decides.
 

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I would talk to the person, if I could!

And I do feel exactly as you do. The reasons for our fights and him taking time off is exactly because I acted like a tiger and really got him mad! So he needed ( or needs ) to clarify why I have this effect on him....

I wish I could just go on with my life but.... I have feelings for him, which do not just disappear because I would so much like them to. But thank you so much for your help!
 

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I'm taking the liberty of updating this thread as threads with no results, no updates of what actually happened, are no use to anyone. We never get to see what the reading meant for someone.

He did contact her and he does want to go on seeing her but things seem far from resolved. That was what she said in CC. I can delete of course if you object to my updating your thread Amanda....but I wish everyone would update their threads so we get to see how the cast played out.
 

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Hi Trojina,
Of course I am happy you updated. To be more precise he contacted me 2 days BEFORE the date. He was sure I would not want to see him again....
We met and now all is still very confused. I did tell him that I will not accept this Kind of behavoir from him anymore and that I want to be respected.
 

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