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will he eventually return to me? 30.2 to 14

val75

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Hi,

To give some background to the situation, I was seeing someone for about a month and then he disappeared on me…I'm not sure as to why but I suspect it might have been due to somethings I said.

I tried contacting him afterwards and asked him if he was ok, and he said he'd been dealing with some issues and that he would contact me in the next week. It's now now been over 3 weeks and I still haven't heard back from him. I'm not sure if he was trying to gently blow me off or if intends to eventually come back to me, ie. contact me again.

So I asked the oracle, will he eventually return to me? 30.2 to 14.

Hexagram 30 represents Clinging and success in persevering. I take this as a positive but I'm not sure.

To be honest I've asked this same question many times to the Yi but today I decided to use coins instead of the internet. In the past I've also received hexagram 24 'return' either unchanging or as resulting or principle hexagram.

I would really appreciate some input as I am at my wits end with this situation.
 

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Honestly, without even needing to look at the hexagrams you threw - he isn't exactly breaking down your door to be with you, so why do you insist on investing energy in this?

This is a very common pattern some men, who really are going through stuff, do - they disappear because they are just not interested in a relationship. What you need to understand is that it's not about you or you doing something wrong. There is no need to dwell on whether he is gently blowing you off or not - the fact of the matter is that he is not interested in continuing and so that is your answer. Go find someone who is dying to talk to you and ready for a relationship.

Love and light,
K
 

val75

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Thanks for your input kkappa…trust me I know all the things you are saying are spot on, and that's what I'd normally do..there's just something different about this person that's all…i can't help but wonder and I have been trying to do what you have suggested, i guess i just need to try a bit harder i guess!

I would still appreciate any insights on the hexagram though…the yi is wise after all.
 

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Val75,

I think the Yi is saying to take the middle path and then all will be well. Relax your feelings, breath deeply and give your attention to the beauty that surrounds you. All will be well. You can always choose to feed your anxiety on this matter, but what for?

All the best
 
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Hmmm Val you've asked a yes/no question - perhaps you could ask - what is the potential for a connection/relationship/whatever with this man - Liss
 

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Thank you to all to who responded.

There was another reply that has now been deleted..it contained some Chinese symbols, does anyone have any ideas as to what might have had happened to that message? weird...
 

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Actually scrap that idea since your posts vanished after the hack. Maybe alert Hilary ? Or post your concern on the hacking thread
 

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There was another reply that has now been deleted..it contained some Chinese symbols, does anyone have any ideas as to what might have had happened to that message? weird...

This was a post by Gabriel999. The poster deleted it.
 
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"will he eventually return to me? 30.2 to 14"

Just a thought: sometimes I get 30.2 when doing too much thinking about something. It is like the brain is generating so much energy that can be overwhelming. Imagine the bright sunlight at midday in the Summer when you can hardly see without a filter. It is all over the top, that is all. So, I wouldn't possibly even consider this reading as a Yes for the question asked, however hard you try Val75, sorry.
 

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I wish Gabriel999 hadn't deleted his post!

it gave an alternative view to everybody else's…it's good to have different perspectives on the hexagrams and lines..
Does anyone else have experiences with 30.2 they would like to share?

I will update in the future to provide feedback as i feel it's the only one can learn
 

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Hi val75,
You got hex 24 first which means return.There are five broken lines in the hex.I think each broken line represents a week.He told you that he would contact you in a week or so.But it had been over 3 weeks and you still haven't heard from him.If I'm not wrong, he will contact you later no more than 5 weeks since you got the hex.
 
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val75

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thanks Gabriel!
I hope you're right :)

What are your thoughts re: 30.2? I'm curious to learn, I thought the hexagram and line was positive.
 

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You asked whether he will contact you again. The answer seems to be yes, he will contact you. However, is that enough for you, if he just contacts you? I would suggest framing the question more accurately as to your hopes, like -- what is the future of our relationship? or something like that.
It is very clear what it is to everyone, but you at this point. Framing your question better perhaps will help you see the truth.
 

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Thank you Greenleaf for your reply. He hasn't as yet contacted me, but you never know I suppose. I will ask another such as the one you've suggested and post it up. :bows:

You asked whether he will contact you again. The answer seems to be yes, he will contact you. However, is that enough for you, if he just contacts you? I would suggest framing the question more accurately as to your hopes, like -- what is the future of our relationship? or something like that.
It is very clear what it is to everyone, but you at this point. Framing your question better perhaps will help you see the truth.
 

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