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...and the saga of my ex continues. Too much to go into here, but I asked Yi tonight if I moved out of state, would my ex harass me there and got a 31.1>49.

I believe that Hex 49 is telling me that this is a time for total transformation. However, that being said, I think 31.1 warns this is not yet the time for me to make that move. What do you guys see in that?

As it appears the ex has really gone off the deep end, I am giving serious consideration to not only leave the area, the state but to also change my name once I get there. I keep hearing stories about how he is threatening people and police intervention is needed. I fear that my turn may be coming around once again too soon.
 
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Attraction Towards What?

...and the saga of my ex continues. Too much to go into here, but I asked Yi tonight if I moved out of state, would my ex harass me there and got a 31.1>49.

I believe that Hex 49 is telling me that this is a time for total transformation. However, that being said, I think 31.1 warns this is not yet the time for me to make that move. What do you guys see in that?
No doubt someone, hopefully you, will understand this answer from Yi, but I don't.

H31 is about mutual influence, the tug and pull of relationships and desire. You might call it attraction.

Line 1 indicates that some process is just at the beginning, that you are feeling the beginnings of the stirring of desire to do something, in the little toe, so to speak, not enough to move the legs and get the hips involved.

I think the relating hexagram is indicating your desire for radical change (H49). That is how you are relating to this.

Is it possible that you want to move, start over somewhere else, change your name, etc, and that your ex is just the ex-cuse?;)

Because H31 should be about desire and attraction, not running away from danger, but instead moving toward some attraction.

Tiger
 

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...and the saga of my ex continues. Too much to go into here, but I asked Yi tonight if I moved out of state, would my ex harass me there and got a 31.1>49.

I believe that Hex 49 is telling me that this is a time for total transformation. However, that being said, I think 31.1 warns this is not yet the time for me to make that move. What do you guys see in that?

As it appears the ex has really gone off the deep end, I am giving serious consideration to not only leave the area, the state but to also change my name once I get there. I keep hearing stories about how he is threatening people and police intervention is needed. I fear that my turn may be coming around once again too soon.

Well if i took the answer really literally, which i feel inclined to do I'd say he wouldn't bother to harrass yououtof state.

I say this becasue 31.1 is just thinking about action...and so its often action that doesn't get off the ground. So I'd have a sense that he may not be bothered to harrass you if you were out of state.


If it applies to you I'd say you don't really have muchof serious intention to get out of state. Yi really does pick up on our fly by ideas and doesn't go any further cos it knows they are fly by ;) its like it says 'look you are thinking of doing this...but are you really going to ?"


So I think this answer is not telling you what to do at all merely reflecting where you are. You need to acknowlege your intent to go or not go. It will take a helluva lot more resolve that you have now if you do intend to go !

Re it being him not being bothered to harrass you....well it was my first impression but its a dangerous one to claim any certainty for. He may still harass you just like I may walk accross the room when i wiggle my toes...or I may just be thinking about walking and wiggle my toes.



In my own experience anyway 31.1 is generally just an idea, just talk, not carried out.


Its a serious issue isn't it if your safety depends upon it, so it would be hard for anyone to promise you you would be safe on the basis of an I Ching reading. I mean if you have to leave state and change your name I assume theres some level of violence or threat or harrassment
 
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if you ask about moving, and yi shows you your foot along with revolution things are pretty clear
 

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Thanks, trojan, gato and tigerintheboat!

I really appreciate your insights about this casting, and I believe that I can take a little from each to interpret Yi's message to me. Indeed, I am VERY attracted to the potential opportunities in this new city/state - career, finances, personal growth and even love. I have sent out a kazillion resumes for different jobs there and even started networking with a couple people I know with contacts in the area for a position.

The ex's threats have been up to this point nothing more than words. However, his ex-wife was not so lucky. He did hit and kick her. He enjoys intimidating people. Many have told me of how law enforcement has been called to remove him from the premises or how he would give glaring looks and threatened others who are acquainted with me. I told him a few months ago to cease and desist all forms of harassment towards me or I would file a restraining order against him. Luckily, that has worked so far.

I don't hold much faith in restraining orders, as this is a small town with an even smaller police force and how many times have you heard stories of how women were denied the court order or ultimately the man disregarded it and attacked/killed her? I don't think my ex would do either, but I really don't want to stick around to find out.

I have been checking into housing in the new city and daily I've been sending out resumes, so yes, in a way this is at the beginning stages and I'm not committed to the move yet. Once I get that job, however, it'll be more than just the toe moving! :rofl:

I hope trojan's right, that he wouldn't be bothered to bug me out of state....that is, if he could find me. The past few days, I feel a very strong pull to make this move, each day I feel it more strongly.

My reluctance is over leaving those I've formed strong bonds with and the business I've built (and of course having to listen to a Mother who is stubborn for all the WRONG reasons "I wouldn't let him run you out of town!" Actually, he was the reason I stayed here in the first place.) So, with the knowledge that Yi believes the ex won't be an issue after I move, I will keep pushing forward with this plan. Thanks again for your interpretations. I really appreciate it.
 

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Thought I'd also follow up with the question "What can I do to make the move to X happen more quickly?" and received a 56.2.6 > 32.

I take that to mean I need to continue the way I have been looking for a job. It is through this perseverance that I will find others ready to help me. I will find employment in the new area that will take care of the necessities of life soon. I just hope for a time frame, that's before July as I read 32 to say...or should I read 56's time frame of April for this?
 

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Update

I stumbled across this post tonight and thought I'd let you know that less than a month after the last posting I made to this thread, I moved out of state. Permanently. I have not directly heard from the ex, nor has it been obvious that he has made attempts to follow or harass me. In a way, it looks like everyone had a piece of the puzzle here. Thanks for all of your interpretations, my friends!
 

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