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hmmm so he is making you his guru. He tells me I've helped him figure out how to "go with the flow" in his life. He's in a much better place physically/mentally than when we met... and so am I. I attribute this largely to our time together and the ways we've helped each other grow as people.
But the script is already written and it's only your relative inexperience (4) that prevents you from seeing it. He knows full well what effect he is having, he gets to flirt and gets all the gratification of your interest but you dare not ask anything of him because of course he has never actually made a move to you. Very convenient for him. You could remain 'confused' for years this way.I love this man and want only the best for him. But it hurts like hell to harbor these feelings knowing they may never be returned.
This doesn't say there will be a resolution soon it says 'not yet across' , one is suspended in the middle of things where nothing is in it's right place. Unchanging this can mean things kind of are forever in the state of 'Not Yet'. Some experiences hereThe other night, I asked the I Ching about him. Nothing specific. I just pictured him in my mind and thought of our relationship to each other to see what response I'd get.
64 Unchanging.
It gave me some hope. The various translations and the images like crossing a river or climbing a mountain, seem to imply that there could be some sort of resolution to this on the horizon soon, provided I don't screw it up like that little fox haha. (I did this with the Tarot too that night and drew the 9 of wands for anyone who dabbles in that).
Seeing this answer I don't feel too bad in putting over my observations because this is precisely what you are being counselled to do here. Observe. Look at it. (20) And look at your own naivety (4) You have 29/30 change patterns here so there's a tension between the depths of emotion and insight and clarity. The way forward, the yin pattern would be I think to look and gain some distance and clarity over his behaviour. Rather than just see this as he innocently shows you good friendship/admiration/lots of attention while moaning about his partner and that you just have these awfully strong feelings you have some shame about perhaps really look at what is happening.His recent increased level of attention towards me over the last few days has made me think of him even more than normal, so tonight I asked the oracle directly "will he ever love me back?" and received 4.2.5>20.
@Chaosmos , I'm your age and tend to agree with Trojina on this.I know the pattern of it and what's happening is not fair. Don't think for a moment he isn't aware of what he's doing, he's toying really with your feelings and then going home to his girlfriend while you go home alone to think about him.
I don't think we can label him that really, we don't know him. This is a very common situation and not all those who act as he does can be called narcissists.A narcissist, seems to be. Check 'narcissistic disorder'.
Not labelling. I said 'seems'. Also, you'd be surprised at the umpteen numbern of narcissists bumping against one another out there!I don't think we can label him that really, we don't know him. This is a very common situation and not all those who act as he does can be called narcissists.
I don't think we can label him that really, we don't know him. This is a very common situation and not all those who act as he does can be called narcissists.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).