Will I be able to move? Hex 40.1.3 to 34

[veronica]

Hi guys, I need your wise imput interpreting this reading as I am having difficulties seeing clearly lately . I am considering various options at the moment (of how to get out of my current situation) and one strong option is to move back to live in Poland (from UK). I know Hilary advises against asking direct questions but I just felt an urge to do it. When I asked a few days ago a more open question "What if I try to move back to Poland?" I got 40.5.6 to 6 (confict with my ex regarding taking my son back to Poland? although he himself said that if I don't go back with him I better move back there but I know him and that one minute he will agree to it and the next he will start causing problems and legally trying to prevent me from going, hence the more direct question). What are your views on 40.3 line? (I thought that if I manage to move back I might travel back to London for a while to serve my notice at work - 3 days a week - does the line advise me against dragging the past into the future?)

Please help with your imput.
Many thanks, Beata

 

[willowfox]

It suggests yes you can go back, but is advising you not to, as back in your homeland you could be facing even bigger problems for those you are involved with.

 

[veronica]

At the moment it feels like whichever way I am trying to turn I get a closed door, a blockage but I know if I stay any longer in my current situation I will break down. I have been asking for all kinds of advice and what I mostly get back is not very encouraging. I thought that by going back to Poland I will be close to my family who can support me and where I will slowly manage to heal and rebuild a stable life for me and my little boy. I just don't know what to do to get out of this nightmare.

 

[veronica]

In fact tonight I asked "Which is the best road for me to take?" and got Hex 58.3.4.5.6 changing to 26, to confuse me even more.

 

[ginnie]

In fact tonight I asked "Which is the best road for me to take?" and got Hex 58.3.4.5.6 changing to 26, to confuse me even more.

Take a longer-term perspective, Veronica. Don't feel that everything has to be decided overnight. Line 58.4 means something like this: "There will be joy despite all this foolish anxiety because blessings will be received."

 

[ginnie]

"What if I try to move back to Poland?" I got 40.5.6 to 6 (confict with my ex regarding taking my son back to Poland? although he himself said that if I don't go back with him I better move back there but I know him

Since you are in conflict with a difficult man, you might think of seeing a marriage counselor or someone with a lot of experience dealing with relationships like this.

You might also achieve the desired liberation by forgiving him and thereby releasing yourself from a sense of confinement. It is said that only the superior person is capable of this type of forgiveness.

Now, line 40.6 says: "He was able to liberate himself from perverse men," but the thing is, Veronica, this has to be done at the exact right moment. Also, in my experience, it does not mean that you will be able to escape from an adverse relationship once and for all, or forever.

In other words, he might retaliate by making life difficult for you. You need some good advice.

 

[ginnie]

40.1.3 > 34

40.1 shows no error, but 40.3 reflects something a little shameful. In your moving plans, you are thinking of going about something improperly. Maybe some kind of pretending or subterfuge? Well, it will backfire on you, because it will definitely attract the kind of people who will steal your possessions or your money.

You are trying to work out a guarantee from Yi that everything will be okay in the future, while at the same time feeling different ways on different days. Some days you feel like you could make it to Poland and start over. On other days you have a lot of self-doubt. Best if you find a counselor in order to straighten out your long-term goals.

Even though you're under pressure, nothing at all will be accomplished by arguing with him, and yelling at him is definitely something you shouldn't do. Restrain yourself. The conflict will have to be settled some other way, probably by a third party, a mediator or counselor of some kind.

With friends, be careful not to waste your time by just complaining. Talk about your goals and try to build up helpful connections instead.

Sometimes we think there's an emergency, but there is really no actual emergency. It's more a feeling we have that we have reached the end of our rope. In reality, there's always a lot more rope. If you keep your focus on the well being of your son, now and in the future, you won't have a breakdown.

 

[bamboo]

I don't think 40.1.3 to 34 is actually advising you that you wont be able to move. I think it is about delivering yourself with great power. The line 3 could be a warning about how to carry out your plans. In other words, it could be saying to do so discreetly. It will take determination and strength to make the move. Line 1 talks about doing this quickly, possibly before opposition can be mounted. and line 3 could be saying that if you make a big show out of this, it is likely to bring on the opposition.

The important factors , IMO, are these: are you ready to cleanly make the break? Is it legally something you can do? IE, do the courts have any say in holding you back?? Do you have a place to go...I thought you had mentioned you were selling one place and buying another in Poland? If all these factors are in place, then you might quietly and firmly follow through. If they are not all in place as of yet, then begin the process, but with line 40.3 in the mix, I wouldn't make your plans too obvious. If you safely get to Poland and have a secure base, then you can negotiate details of visitation with your ex from a secure base. You will have more of the power.

 

[willowfox]

Line 40.5 says that your ex is a real pest that is extremely difficult to get rid of and the advice of this line is to learn to ignore him. So when he turns up unannounced on your doorstep, don't answer the door, don't even talk to him, just leave him out there, so after a few weeks of this treatment he will start getting the real message.

Line 40.6 again describes your ex who is inferring with your way of life, and it says that this guy is a bad one and therefore needs to be shot down, so you need to remove him from your life and that would indicate the use of the authorities in England. Getting a restraining order would be good for you.