Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I love him. I'm scared to stay because he can be patronizing and negative about alot of things that make up my life. studying, discovering, I don't know why he gets so triggered by new ways of looking at things. I feel like im being so ungrateful, he loves me. but he quiets my voice and it feels like a trap sometimes. and sometimes it feels like i found my solid sturdy partner.
He had lost a wife of 10 years to cancer and has never met another woman for him until me, ten years after her death. I'm happy and unhappy alot. He is a comic, but also a baby and sometimes a caveman with no finesse. Sometimes the jokes aren't good for our relationship.
Very special I'm in a relationship with a man who I never thought I would be with because he's a wild man. A few years after knowing him He got inspired one night and played a song, did some love magic, some african drum voodoo,
People treat us the way we treat ourselves.
I'm not keen on the idea people treat you how you treat yourself, indeed I'm suspicious of it as a dark side of new age thinking because it's basically a view that is detrimental to the victim, and there are victims.
'm scared to stay because he can be patronizing and negative about alot of things that make up my life. studying, discovering, I don't know why he gets so triggered by new ways of looking at things. I feel like im being so ungrateful, he loves me. but he quiets my voice and it feels like a trap sometimes. and sometimes it feels like i found my solid sturdy partner
Yes all those. Also he tries to be smarter, I'm just too challenging for his likes. I think it's trauma from being short and beat up by his mom. He'll be better if I can be myself further away and not insecure at his side. just a friend with my own life who loves him but not that closely it's a very small town, that helps me act so much better in the goodbyes. Everything comes back around I'm learning.So glad to hear you're letting go. He sounds toxic, passive-aggressive and narcissistic.
Im so glad to be free. I can get back to a bigger picture with a better idea of what it's not. I have Pluto and Uranus in the seventh. Im trying to understand how to make this powerful for the good instead of destructive. I think art therapy and working a course I have on cptsd will specify what I actually want to do with these destructive forces so they don't just give me make overs all the time lolThis is some solid wisdom, and I think a nice angle on "manifestation".
This sounds like 52.2. You want to change someone who you ally yourself with, possibly see as higher than yourself, but you ultimately can't change him or re-align him (nor should you). Definitely sounds passive-agressive and on the narcissism (small "n") spectrum.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).