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Will I be together with 45.1.4 to 3

Friend45

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Dear All,

I'd like to seek your guidance. I'm pretty sure that the way I am asking the question is incorrect but i can't think of any other way to form a question to clarify the situation for me. So I asked "Please clarify if i will be together with X person?" The answer that I got is 45.1.4 changing to 3.

Here is some background, I met this person and I really liked him, well I actually feel a strong desire to be with him and to know him better. But he does not have any room for me at the moment. He has someone else. Of course, I know that the logical response that many people will write here is to forget him and move on, especially because he is taken. But it's been 6 months already and I can't get him of my head so I wanted to know if I have any future together with this person, and I mean any, from seeing each other as friends or a couple and in general, will our roads cross-pass in the future. I'd really like to know him better and to communicate but after a really short fling encounter that we had and he went back to his ex, i think he does feel uncomfortable to communicate with me especially since we were not friends beforehand and don't know each other well, so we don't have any reasons to keep in touch.
If anyone can help me with the reading of my hexagrams and not just give me some advice on my situation, I'll greatly appreciate it. Thanks a lot in advance!!!
 

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The situation is awkward. He may feel uncomfortable and maybe even guilty for having a short fling with you.
To me the reading suggests the *possibility* of friendship but not unless you (3) 'bring order out of the chaos' of your feelings. (Do you want to be his friend? Wife? Acquaintance? Mistress?) and it may be difficult. Line 1 says there can be an association but it too mentions a confused sincerity (of yours) If he is in a committed relationship then 45's sacrifice might have to be your desire for him. Line 4 has good fortune because it is an unselfish alliance.

Try hard to be honest with yourself about your strong feelings and about the circumstances.
if you were out at a dinner party with him, his girlfriend, and a group,
Would they see a creepy, love struck friend45 in denial about her feelings?

What do you think the best thing to do is?
 
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svenrus

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Following the rules named Nanjingrules line four in hex. 45 is pointed out. In Gregory C. Richters translaion ( http://grichter.sites.truman.edu/files/2012/01/yjnew.pdf ) it's shortly:

" A GREAT AUSPICIOUS omen. NO HARM. "

("Please clarify if i will be together with X person?" The answer that I got is 45.1.4 changing to 3).

I guess NO HARM shows that its an innocent matter.....

Just a detail in the reading. I'll not go into the other parts in it.

(take it as a supplement to Moss Elks advice)
 

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