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Hi,
I have went through a very hard emotional experience which I’m not over it yet 100% but in the process. I would say I have never been lucky in love. I actually had few love encounters in my life and all of them were drama in away and another. So I asked the oracle will I find my man and the answer is Hexagram 58 changing line 1,2,5,6 to 35. I feel that it’s a positive reading but I hope that it will not end in another drama.
Thank you so much for your insights.
Jasmine
If we want something badly, the universe will give it to us.
This is actually the 58.1 situation right there for you - you need to be happy with what you have and not be sending the message out into the Universe that you are lacking - wanting something badly is sending the message that you don't have it. ......
kkappa You are SO right here and I appreciate that you said this. What we ask of the Yi is to give us guidance in reaching a new level of awareness of our "selves" and you points to a very important shift in thinking that goes along with this awareness.
What we *think* is real, *is* real in a very tangible and observable way. If we think we're "needy" - we are. If we think however, that there is always more for us to learn and that what we know we are to learn is "love" one another, then asking for the next step in the ladder of growth in an open and accepting way, will bring the right experiences to you follow the path. There is no harm in asking - even asking in the "wrong" way. Where comes the harm is in not accepting the answer we get. Always a good one for me to remember.
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I don't mean to put it like "oh you just do it and then it's done" because the reality was that it was a very f*cking painful process which also involved cutting up wounds older than my active memory (hi, mother and father!). Going out on a limb here and suggesting meditation, healers etc. for you, because there is something deeper here that is stopping you from believing that you are a wonderful human being and nobody is running away from you, unless you prefer to interpret it as such and letting it control your actions.
I'm sorry for the monologue!
Thanks K for sharing. I understand your points and I guess you are right.
Mariah,
Thank you so much for your words. I really need them.
In general, I’m a happy easy-going person but I said recently I went through a bad experience ( I have another post regarding it- in short it was an intense affair that ended up with him avoiding me without any reasons). The experience opened my wounds and pushed me to think deeply about my approach toward life. One thing I learned is each one of us should know his/her value and not wait for people to take decisions on their behalf . I waited for a decision from this guy to whether to have an affair or not instead of looking for my interest and the result is having to go through this turmoil.
As a fact, I’m not looking for any love now, I’m so hurt and closed and no way I would like to go through the same never ever again.
Thanks
Jasmine
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).