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Will I Have Sex up to the End of Fall? 11.1.6>18

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I have no partner and no sex now; so I asked "Will I Have Sex up to the End of Fall?" and got: 11.1.6> 18

My take of 11: the door is (will be) open to have a sexual relationship; the energy is there and the connection, possible. Hillay says about this hexagram:
"Flow is a sign of the free and full expression of tremendous creative energy... This is a time to create harmony with the greater flow, letting its energy pour into creative manifestation, as a river flows down into a fertile valley. Pettiness is swept away downstream, and the way opens for free communication. Great things become possible."

11.1: ' Hillary: Pulling up thatch grass, roots entangled, with more of its kind. Setting out to bring order, good fortune.'
De Korne notes:"A. Removal from an entrenched position advances the general welfare. Go beyond yourself./ B. A union of similar forces moves progressively." I'll go out of my comfort zone to establish a sexual relationship with someone of my kind- who has similar ideas, taste, etc; maybe with a friend. Things seem to go well, at least in the beginning...

11.6: ' Hillary: The bulwarks fall back into the moat – don't use the army. From your own city, declaring the mandate. Constancy means shame.' According to De Korne: "A distinction is dissolved, a belief is shattered. " After getting sexy, I'll discover that things aren't as I imagined. I'll be disappointed and find no benefit in keeping up.

The Flow(11) is over and the relationship is Spoiled (18).
In other words, I'll have a brief sexual relationship that starts well and finishes not so well.
Any ideas?

 

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What if you put too much into that relationship? Maybe it is "corrupted" (18) from the start... I think you will have sex, because of line 1 and hex 11... But then you will find a plan to make the relationship work
 
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when looking through my notes on 18 word prevention popped out most and it made me see it as Yi answering more in lines of what's preventing you from finding a partner and advises to be open, maybe let yourself be "pulled up" as the grass in line 1 would, as in picked up by a guy, stay open to the possibility and you'll draw the right person near? then line 6 might warn against putting up the walls again, bracing yourself against the unforeseen external factors. maybe the idea of commanding own city is to do with making some strong commitment to yourself that would direct the interaction in the way you want it (to prevent disappointment, lack of benefit or spoiling it before it starts)?
 

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it made me see it as Yi answering more in lines of what's preventing you from finding a partner and advises to be open, maybe let yourself be "pulled up" as the grass in line 1 would, as in picked up by a guy, stay open to the possibility and you'll draw the right person near?
It's hard for me to be open, I admit.
line 6 might warn against putting up the walls again, bracing yourself against the unforeseen external factors. maybe the idea of commanding own city is to do with making some strong commitment to yourself that would direct the interaction in the way you want it (to prevent disappointment, lack of benefit or spoiling it before it starts)?
Makes sense. I've done it before, more than one time.
I'm not saying this to justify my attitude- no. I just try to explain myself: I've been burnt and disappointed before. I don't know what a right partner is to be honest. The physical aspect has been boring. Some advise me to make an emotional connection, to be friends first. I can't, as I don't have the power to make another person want that. As for putting up the walls again, I didn't feel like having sex with those guys. Maybe it was early, but also the fact that they were too focused on sex: always turning the conversation to this topic, dirty talking, explaining their fantasies, etc; as if other aspects were just tools to enter to the sex sphere. It didn't satisfy me. I didn't even feel like they wanted to have sex with me in particular, but with the first girl who agreed.
 

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Hi marybluesky
thanks again for your comments to my readings - I do not feel knowledgeable enough to add much in terms of interpretation but what strikes me is the question you ask. We seem to be in a somewhat similar situation - looking for a relationship - yet I would never ask that question. Why not? Because this is just a question I need to ask myself to get a very accurate answer: Do I want to have sex up to the end of fall? If yes, then I will have sex, if no then not. I feel as a woman it is really easy to have sex any time you want - just go into the next bar, sit there with a smile on your face and in no time you'll have five guys to choose from - or register on a dating site - or even ask a single male friend.
But then you said that you are not really looking for sex anyway but rather for a commited relationship. So then why do you ask if you will have sex??
 

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Chione I guess we have a context, some criteria in mind when asking questions. In my case I definitely don't mean having sex in any price, but in reasonably suitable conditions, such as mutual contest, some emotional intimacy, etc.
So I add in brackets:
Will I Have Sex up to the End of Fall [in my perceived suitable conditions]?
 

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Hexagram 11 has the Trigram of earth above the trigram of heaven.
This always speaks to me about tantra and kundalini energies, about "bringing heaven to earth", seeing and feeling the sacredness of sexual energy and sharing this most sacred of connections in a divine dance...

The changing lines 1 and 6 leading to 18 say to me that you could be missing or ignoring this sacred aspect, thus leading to corruption or decay in your own energy and life.

Lines 1 and 6 could also signify focusing only on the initial chasing / seduction game, and the final climax result, but excluding everything else (connection, laughter, play, getting to know someone, loving someone, the heart connections etc). This also leading to corruption.

Also, possibly, you could catch an STD, or other related skin infection, something with parasites and blisters (the vessel of worms or other noxious insects).
 

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Also, possibly, you could catch an STD, or other related skin infection, something with parasites and blisters (the vessel of worms or other noxious insects).
Although the read was totally negative, this one is too much. I seriously wish this doesn't come true🙃
 

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Update: I've started to explore myself sexually with a friend.
As a not-much-experienced girl I'm now determined to push things forward.
 

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