will I meet another girl?" and Yi's answer, 38.1.5.6 to 47.

[beekay]

Hello, I am still living with my wife but we have not been together for over a year. I have come to realize that she has just been using me from the begenning and run her agenda all along. It's like I just woke up and realized what was going on all along. I've been like a Labrador mixing with foxes as it were. I am resentful and angry. She isn't the person I thought she was (everything has been a lie) It's all been understood but unspoken. We have not spoken of splitting but it is inevitable. I want to move on when my finances improve (lost everything but my home over the last few years) We have kids so that is another reason why I have not move out. I or she will leave when it can be done without having to sell the kids home. I am wondering if I will meet someone after. I am fine not meeting a new life partner also but am curious.

 

[Lavalamp]

In 47 - this is the context of the reading - the lake is dried up. there is no flow, and nobody believes you. But it indicates success if you perservere. In this situation, the advice is to be cheerful.
38.1 Here the situation you regret will change. Don't run after what you have lost, you'll get it back. Be careful talking with bad people, guard yourself against mistakes.
38.5 You will bite through the problem and remorse will disappear.
38.6 Here because of your isolation, you view someone who means you No harm as harmful. If you put down your bow the rain will come and all will be well.
This cautions you to not become overly defensive in the future or you may misjudge people.

- LL

 

[beekay]

Thank you so much. It makes a lot of sense to my situation. Again, Thank you.