Will me and Claudia come toguether again in this life? 50.4 to 18

[overkote]

Hi everyone. Any help to this question?. We had a more than 7 years relationship full of love, intensity but also characters disagreements, things were awfull handled at last and we finally ended up almost 10 months ago. I still feel love for her so I did ask to ICHING and I got 50.4 to 18.

 

[Chione]

Hi overkote,

my try on this:
The IChing does not have a direct answer to this question. As much as you would like to hear: "Yes, in the end all will be good and you will get back together again", it can't say this, it would not be true. It all depends on many circumstances and the end is open.
From the reading however, I would say it is difficult that you will ever get back together again. Hex 50, line 4 says it: "The legs of the ting are broken, the prince's meal is spilled. Misfortune." Yet I would say hexagram 50, the cauldron, the sacred vessel, also refers to a great potential for transformation. But it would need both of you willing to be "cooked" and completely transformed by the relationship. At the moment it does not look like this is going to happen.
Does this make sense?
All the best
Chione

 

[moss elk]

Hi everyone. Any help to this question?. We had a more than 7 years relationship full of love, intensity but also characters disagreements, things were awfull handled at last and we finally ended up almost 10 months ago. I still feel love for her so I did ask to ICHING and I got 50.4 to 18.

Hi,
In 50.4 Somebody royally screwed up.
The duke isn't likely to allow it to happen again.

We all make mistakes, and we can learn and grow from them,
If we try to. Sometimes we have to feel the pain of an error,
So that we never make the same mistake again.

I understand that may not be what you wanted to hear.

 

[overkote]

Hi overkote,

my try on this:
The IChing does not have a direct answer to this question. As much as you would like to hear: "Yes, in the end all will be good and you will get back together again", it can't say this, it would not be true. It all depends on many circumstances and the end is open.
From the reading however, I would say it is difficult that you will ever get back together again. Hex 50, line 4 says it: "The legs of the ting are broken, the prince's meal is spilled. Misfortune." Yet I would say hexagram 50, the cauldron, the sacred vessel, also refers to a great potential for transformation. But it would need both of you willing to be "cooked" and completely transformed by the relationship. At the moment it does not look like this is going to happen.
Does this make sense?
All the best
Chione

Dear Chione
Thanks so much for your deep reply / comments about my question. Yes , even its hard to accept it makes me sence and also even still keep hope, Half of mysefl tell me get over those thoughts of my head and Forget or at least put all my efforts on it. Indeed 50.4 it is literall and you are right. Also makes me sence that whatever chance would requiere both willing to be cooked, not just me. Thanks again and all my blest. Cristian.

 

[overkote]

Hi,
In 50.4 Somebody royally screwed up.
The duke isn't likely to allow it to happen again.

We all make mistakes, and we can learn and grow from them,
If we try to. Sometimes we have to feel the pain of an error,
So that we never make the same mistake again.

I understand that may not be what you wanted to hear.

 

[overkote]

Thank you Moss. You are right , it was literally screwed up the relationship , i know it. I do Believe so too , pain at least Can give me a deep learning for this life and for sure i will never make same mistakes as I did in this relationship ( i talk in what refers to me ). Yes , I expected to Hear something else , but it is ok .. it much better to see reality as it is.. and for months I did all my efforts but She does not want anything with the relationship. Thanks again . Blessing.