will my friend reach out to me 45.1.2 to 58

[Lettuce]

I had a falling out with a work colleague and I was wondering if they would reach out to me to make amends.

I received 45.1.2 to 58

This could be read in different ways but my interpretation is that 45 is us gathering together at work

45.1 is their lack of consistency regarding their behaviour or their hesitation in contacting me to make amends. if they did it would certainly immediately dissolve any conflicts between us. If they made a small gesture to make amends it would be enough.

45.2 they will reach out and all will be well or they will never reach out but would be receptive if I reached out to them (which i wouldnt do)

58 - is joyous exchange which leads me to believe they will reach out. Or is that my desire for communication

Any thoughs would be greatly appreciated as my interpretation is pretty muddled

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

I had a falling out with a work colleague and I was wondering if they would reach out to me to make amends.

I received 45.1.2 to 58

This could be read in different ways but my interpretation is that 45 is us gathering together at work

45.1 is their lack of consistency regarding their behaviour or their hesitation in contacting me to make amends. if they did it would certainly immediately dissolve any conflicts between us. If they made a small gesture to make amends it would be enough.

45.2 they will reach out and all will be well or they will never reach out but would be receptive if I reached out to them (which i wouldnt do)

58 - is joyous exchange which leads me to believe they will reach out. Or is that my desire for communication

Any thoughs would be greatly appreciated as my interpretation is pretty muddled

Hi! Nice to e-meet you. I try.

45 is, in my experience, a double side hex. It could be gathering as confrontation in a conflict (or also fight), or positive gathering (we unite forces and work together). In any case there's a meeting, a ritual, so perhaps, something which commonly and routinely has to take place, also if not planned or expected, and which is necessary (also conflicts and fights are necessary, in my opinion, even in families). Here there is an unforseen element, something the group didn't expect. You definitely hace to face it.

First line:

I love it, personally. Especially the sentence "if you call, a gesture is sufficient to laugh again" (sorry for my translation, i read the book in another language, not in english). Here there are many people, which means, many interests which are not converging. Perhaps you could make the first step forward. It seems your chief is a good person and will help.

Second line:

You are in a group which understands you and you understand them. You work good. Let it be, you don't need to formally say "I'm sorry", cause in this group you feel yourself like at home. But perhaps you have to sacrifice something - maybe, stubbornness, cause you'd like the person to say to you "I'm sorry, was my fault"?

I'm pretty sure you should consider the possibility to gather with them and make a step forward.

58: it seems everything will be fine. But you have to be sincere and solid in your behaviour. And also gentle outside, in your manners.

Hope it has helped you!

 

[Lettuce]

Thank you for your feedback. I am not actually working at the company anymore so i will no longer be gathering with the group but i hoped my work colleague (outside of the confines of the office) would reach out to make amends as we were also friends

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

Thank you for your feedback. I am not actually working at the company anymore so i will no longer be gathering with the group but i hoped my work colleague (outside of the confines of the office) would reach out to make amends as we were also friends

Ok, thank you for the infos.
Well, anyway, i think you could consider the possibility of a step forward to your friend. As you were (and still are?) friends, formality is not required, and therefore it'll be an easy task! I write that, cause Yi does not often speak about sacrifice and I'd not ignore if the book speaks about it. It's not clear, in my opinion, if the friend will do a step forward to you. You are similar. Perhaps the friend as well could be stubbord about this situation.

Clavdia

 

[Lettuce]

Thank you Clavdia for your feedback. something to think about x

 

[Matali]

Thank you Clavdia for your feedback. something to think about x

I agree with Claudia

 

[Lettuce]

In all honesty, the person was very out of order and it would be strange for me to contact them without a gesture of good will from them. Maybe the sacrifice is the friendship.

 

[moss elk]

hi Lettuce,

The sovereign is the one doing all the gathering in 45. (of ancestors, of armies)

I think this reading is advice for you
to reach out to her.
"hey friend, can we talk, my feelings were hurt when..."

Line 1 is a happy line.
reach out, and you may be pleasantly surprised.

 

[Lettuce]

Thank you Moss Elk for replying. I always find your readings pretty lucid and succinct. So it seems pretty conclusive i should reach out. To be sure i don’t make a fool of myself trying to connect, when the other person may not reciprocate, i asked another question

Should i connect with/ reach out to X? 45.1.6 to 25

45.1 again - could this be my reservations in how i may be received but encourages me to do so

45.6 doesn’t sound too great! lots of tears! oh dear

could 25 be remain free of any further entanglements

it doesn’t feel like it’s saying i should reach out to me.

Any helpful suggestions to the pros out there x

 

[Matali]

Line 6 tells you "go for your friend, you're both sad ». It is very clear

 

[Lettuce]

thank you !

 

[moss elk]

...

Lettuce know how it goes.

 

[Lettuce]

i will keep you all updated for sure! i feel quite liberated at the thought of taking the initiative. i hope it pays off xx

 

[Lettuce]

just noticed your pun!!

 

[Lettuce]

i never did reach out to this friend and it was the correct thing to do. 45.1.6 is clearly the gathering is over and to remain free if entanglements (25). Such a clear reading in hindsight!

 

[Lettuce]

btw my friend never reached out to me neither. I always find 45.2 is passive, one just goes with the flow but doesn’t take action