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Will she contact me again ? 26.2.5.6>63

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Hello to all,

I met a girl last year with whom I made a strong connection, we talked every day, we had a good time, we had started to build an intimate relationship and almost overnight, I had no news. I asked her why she was communicating less and if I had done something wrong. She told me that she was having problems and that it had nothing to do with me. She told me that she goes into silent states when she is not well. Today I haven't heard from her for a month and I don't see myself asking her for news so as not to put pressure on her, since she is in silent mode. So I asked the Yi-jing, if she would contact me again because I think that it is not my place to put myself forward again given the situation.

I got 26.2.5.6>63

Hexagram seems to describe a process

Line 2 The spokes are taken from the wagon = it is not possible to move. Changes to (22) Grace. You are held back from proceeding because of events beyond your control. This is a time to explore acceptance of what you are powerless to change. Grace offers the message: if you can’t change the direction of the wind, adjust your sails and let life guide you.

Line two says that I am not responsible in terms of cutting off communication (that's how I see the axle separation) and even say that no action from me is possible

on the other hand I don't understand lines 5 and 6 at all because it seems like a reversal of the situation (http://www.jamesdekorne.net/GBCh/hex26.htm)

Line 5 :

Wilhelm/Baynes:
The tusk of a gelded boar. Good fortune.

Blofeld: A gelded boar's tusk -- good fortune! [This is an emblem of opportunity.]

Liu: The boar has a tusk but is gelded. Good fortune.

Line 6 :

Legge:
The sixth line, dynamic, shows its subject as in command of the firmament of heaven. There will be progress.

Wilhelm/Baynes: One attains the way of heaven. Success.

Blofeld: Carrying (i.e. according with) heaven's way.

Liu: One follows the way of heaven. Success.

Hex 63 shows well in the background the unbalanced situation, the change compared to before

If you can enlight me to understand what the yi wanted to say thank you very much
 

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Line 2: Does not necessarily mean you are stopped by forces outside of your control. She may say it is just in her nature. She is saying you didn’t cause the break, but the carriage (your relationship) was not being maintained properly. You are not just stuck in the mud, you can’t just wait for it to dry.

Things are broken and require mending before you can move forward. Either you or she must mend the cart.

I’m not saying this is the case, at all, just that it is something to consider when looking at the remaining lines.

Line 5: You have things of value. Perhaps to keep in mind during the time the wagon is being repaired. A whole “whistle while you work” sort of thing.

On the other hand, maybe it is a beautiful thing you have pulled from the cart as you move on. Positive memories of the relationship that you are leaving behind.

Line 6: When you move it will be with the Mandate of Heaven.

I always found the Mandate of Heaven stuff to be two sided. I am never sure if it means I can only move forward if I am moving in conjunction with the will of heaven, or if it is instead saying my path forward is already aligned with the will of heaven.

Either way, when you move forward there will be success.

63 Indicates a conclusion, but also a new beginning.

My interpretation would be: What you had is broken, there were issues that were unresolved and only became apparent under stress. However, there are also things of value in the relationship,

I think it is saying that you will hear from her again. You must wait for her though (much like you have been).

It is important that the cart be repaired, and that is outside of your control. I think you are supposed to take time to appreciate the treasure while she fixes the cart.

You can wait, or move on, just know that when you move it will be with a treasure, and the blessings of heaven behind you.
 

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Hello Cuddly_Balrog
Thank you for your insightful response.

Regarding line two, there is indeed a demonstration of a hindrance with this stuck cart, you mention stress as the cause of the problems (unresolved situations) and I do agree since she mentioned that it had been a long time since she was on her own, the very idea of a relationship distressed her even though she was the first one to want us to be in a romantic relationship.

With line 5, I feel like I am the person (the boar) castrated. It seems to indicate that I know how to control my urge to act and take the lead. By not acting, there will be luck and that is the best thing to do.

Line 6 with the mandate of heaven indicates that the obstacles give way. In this case with reference to the question, it could mean that holding back my ardor from line 5 is beneficial. Two solutions seem to present themselves, either it resumes communication, or the line tells me "Either way, if you follow your own path, you have the universe supporting you and you will be successful (in the sense of maybe finding another relationship ?) which would go with 63 ? an end and a new beginning as you said?what do you think ?
 

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I get 26 a lot when I am being told actions speak louder than words. I didn’t think it was specifically relevant to your question, but I think I have changed my mind

She said she was not ready for a relationship, even though she pursued you. She specifically said she had not been alone. OK. She has basically said go on without me, I need to fix this.

In line 5 it is talking about the gelded boar’s tusk, and how that tusk is representative of good fortune. So perhaps I was wrong in referring to it as a treasure. Maybe having them is an indicator that something that was once threatening, isn’t so any longer.

I don’t think you are the boar. I think you see that the boar can no longer hurt you, you have the tusks to prove it.

Now if you can embrace the idea that this situation is at its nadir, it can no longer hurt you. As long as you can give her the alone she wants, she will catch up when she fixes the cart.

If she doesn’t, why would you want a broken cart?

Are there two possible outcomes, man hopefully a lot more than that! You have no idea what the heavens hold in store for you, other than it is good.

What you do know is that you can’t help fix the cart.

P.S Thank You for the compliment!
 

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Thanks for the answer but I think I misunderstood. This girl hasn't had a lasting relationship in 4 years and she told me that she's not used to being alone anymore. so in reality, it's like she wants a relationship and then it makes her anxious and she cuts off communication. The last words I had were really that she wasn't well and she didn't want to put her problems on me. She added that she was not in a stable mood and that she was not necessarily well in her life (Yes, this seems to be more than enough to not go further in the relationship)

Going back to the interpretation of the lines and the hexagram, lines 2, 5 and 6 with what you added really seem to be a process. Line 2, the carriage separates and she is the one who initiates it. Line 5 seems to add as you say I'm not taking it badly, in fact I'm just a little disappointed but I'm not heartbroken or anything. I did spot some problematic signs in her that made me think that the relationship could not run in the long run. It's not my job to fix her broken cart! Line 6 seems to indicate that I am not losing anything and that in reality, something else is waiting for me that is more covered by the heavens. Basically, keep on going, there is something better waiting for you, you will be divinely rewarded. At least that's how it sounds...

In an another post I find this that could be useful, this is the example I took to explain why I'm the castrated one lol ! If you have something to add with those enlightment :)
Will he return? 26.2.5.6 > 63
26.2 - separation.
26.5 - you 'castrated' him by telling him not to contact anymore. "Good fortune" (for you, I believe).
26.6 - both he and you are now free to move towards any direction.
63 - I'm sorry to say this but I believe the story is completed :-(
Even so, I do think you behaving like you did will eventually turn out to your advantage.
You were dealing with a "big animal" and you did the right thing to put things in their right place (63).
 
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Diamant has a good intuition and understanding.

In that reading the individual’s danger was their partner. Which was castrated, and rendered harmless. Just like yours is now! I can see why you thought that way, that you were the boar though.
 

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