wondering about the possibilities

[alev]

Hi everyone,
I am still new to the I Ching and regarding relationship readings i tend to get confused.
In my last post, I had asked about a guy I had been seeing but then got in a fight with and we broke off contact. I had asked in that reading what his feelings were towards me and received hexagram 54. Which was explained to me meant he possibly wanted to be in control
I still have feelings for him and did another reading asking if the obtacles or issues between us can be overcome. The result was 62 with moving line 3 changing to 16.

I am confused because the overall message of 62 and 16 seems to be promising but line 3 seems to suggest otherwise.
any insights?

 

[willowfox]

Line 62.3 suggests the need for caution if you try and patch things up as you don't know what kind of mood he is in but it doesn't look too friendly.

 

[alev]

wow, i think you really hit the nail on the head with the not being too friendly part. He was very angry when we got into the big fight!
I should have included that prior to me asking if the obstacles/issues can be overcome, I asked what the main obstacle or issue was in our relationship. The resulting hexagram was 18.4.6 changing to 32
This made sense to me because he is from a very strict conservative family and he acts it being very introverted and not liking drama! I am from a more outgoing home situation and spend a lot out at parties and enjoy "getting wild". This is of course what sparked the fight. It seems to me this reading says that his conservative upbringing prevents him from thinking long time potential for me? what do you think?