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elizabeth65

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I just asked the Yi if the man I have recently briefly dated (long distance) who just went back east, would come back (meaning contact me) within about 7 weeks to reunite and continue seeing me. It would entail me going out to the east to be with him...

I received form the coins:

45.3 >31

I don't understand the whole family connection, bit 31 seems promising?

I'm not very good at asking for someone elses possible behavior, so I m a bit confused here..
If I asked for myself it would make sense to me.

Thank you!!!
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in 45.3 one is often ill at ease in a gathering, that has been my experience...actually i have to say i think 45.3 is pretty uncomfortable. One trys to connect, be part of a ccertain group but is an outsider. It may be if you go to join him these feelings of alienation may arise in you if perhaps you have to then be part of his circle there. Its often difficult when after knowing someone intimately on a one to one level one then has to also fit into his social group/family etc. So I'm not sure this answers your question directly..45 does for me generally indicate actual physical gatherings, but you might want to consider how much you can really sort of join in with his group..that may be a bit of a strain for you..and hence strain the relationship
 

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Had to change my handle (forgot my password!!)

Anyway, Thanks Trojan...Hummm, I'm not sure I would have a problem meeting his people back east. As I have meet quite a few here in the west (family and good friends) and it was lovely. The east is where I would love to be actually..with him!!!! I guess I wanted to see what his behavior would reflect based on the Yi and the throw...maybe he is hesitant to reach out??? the 3rd line showing its hard to have me join him in his life in NY, maybe he has reservations about that..Speculation here, it may be hard but then 31 showing its worth it for him..:confused:

Does line 3 mean he wont reach out? or just he is uncomfortable with it?
 

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Does line 3 mean he wont reach out? or just he is uncomfortable with it?

I really can't say I'm afraid..for one thing it isn't predetermined if he'll reach out or not is it. I can't say how the picture in 45.3 relates to your specific situation..it shows a gathering where one is not quite at ease. If it were my own reading and i was asking if a guy was going to connect with me again I'd probably think he may well do but it wouldn't be plain sailing, or may not live up to expectations..which may not be at all what it means for you. Sorry can't be more specific than that I was just sharing what I knew about 45.3 :) ..maybe someone else will share their ideas too
 

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45.3 says align with someone who will get you in with the group.
You say you have met some of his people that live where you are. Could the I Ching be encouraging you to cultivate any of them as a friend?

rosada
 

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I already have!!!! Very perceptive!!! But I was really asking Yi for his behavior and how the hexagrams would reflect that.

Rosada, I love the encouragement to continue up with keeping in touch with his friends. I am.
Thanks you!:bows:
 

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