Yet another relationship question... 52. 1 to 22 and 39.1.4.6 to 13

[nina]

Hi again,

This is the first reading I do on behalf of somebody else, so I need your help...

My friend Marina is in a relationship with a man, but she knows there is somebody else, because he told her, and says he is torn apart...

So I asked what his feelings toward my friend were:
Got 39.1.4.6 to 13

And I also asked what his feelings toward the other woman were:
Got 52.1 to 22

At first glance, it seems that my friends prospects are not great since the lines all speaks of obstruction if one is going, and union if one is coming/retreating? But I am not that sure...

Any insights? You will understand I do not want to make mistakes in what I tell her (I can live with misinterpretations about myself, not someone else...)

Thanks

Nina

 

[pargenton]

Nina,
I would try to put the focus on the questions, i.e. at a first glance it would seem that this man is standing still as a mountain in his relationship with the other woman, i.e. little chance to move him.

Ask your friend Marina what exactly she wants to know.

I can imagine questions like:
"Should I continue the relationship given this situation?"

"What is the best path of action for me to follow?"

That is put the focus on potential actions and behaviour of Marina, generic questions on feelings of other people are very very difficult and error prone.
And they also give little advice on what to do.

bye
Paolo