Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Dear Friends
It has taken me a good many years to admit to myself that I want to become a father. Now, at last, at the age of 49 (!) I am in a relationship where this is a possibility (it was not possible in previous relationships for various reasons). As my girlfriend and I discuss the subject and as it comes closer - there is no hurry on her part, she is 35 and has a 10 year old daughter already - I find myself becoming apprehensive, asking myself "can I cope?" "is it realistic?" "is it too late?" and so on.
Friends are encouraging, they smile knowingly and say "if anyone should be a father, it's you" and "you will be a great Dad" - all of which is lovely, and yet I am still a little afraid.
So today I asked Yi "Why am I afraid of becoming a parent" and got 6 > 35 which, despite reading other's threads and trying to extrapolate them to my situation, I find difficult to understand.
If anyone can shed a little light on this I would be grateful.
All the best
Joe
Thanks anemos - I think yes, that my fear is partly the "can I do it right" kind - and there's something else even more pressing, the "is it too late, am I deluding myself?" fear.... well, well.
Thanks again
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).