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17.3 to 49 Resolving conflict

flowypetals

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Hi Everyone,

I asked I Ching : What is the best approach to resolve this conflict between me and the guy i like?
And I've gotten 17.3 to 49.

We have not been talking for nearly 2 days because of this. Today, i asked my friend for opinion and realize that i actually made the mistake of not thinking under his shoes, and saying things insensitively.

What does the hexagrams suggest?
 

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Hi

What does the hexagrams suggest to you?

It is a good practice to share your own understanding; after all, the Yi is speaking to you. Everybody can give you their own understanding and experience, to enhance your vision; but it all grows from your your own grasping of the answer.

Of course, this is just a good practice, not an obligation or hard rule; but this practice may get you the best from the interaction with the community :)
 

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Hi,

I agree but often i find my own interpretations rather off from the answers i receive :(

When i read the hexagram meaning for 17 changing line 3, i feel that it is suggesting me to follow my friend's advise (to initiate contact with him tonight), to be mature and apologize, and forgo my own childish ego/fear.

Hope to receive insights as i'm rather new to this, thanks!
 

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Hi

I think your understanding of your answer is pretty good.

I'll just add, from the Image, that it would be good to have a relaxed approach; Movement (initiative) combined with Joy works miracles.

Wish you all the best
 

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Oh, I just noticed your previous threads about this man.

Could it be that HE is the child-like one to be left behind? What you told about the way he acts towards you doesn't look mature.

Yijing aside, there are several red flags in your previous threads for an abusive relation. Be careful, take care of yourself and your emotional well-being.
 

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Update: Last night i initiated contact with him and apologized in a less formal way, and we are now back to normal and he is talking in a nicer way now.

Hmm i guess both of us are not mature, for him he has very high expectations and for me i'm rather insensitive.

Thanks Sixth Relative for the concerns, i'll take care of myself, have a nice day!
 

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