Asked best if any way to have contact.... Hex 32 2.4 to 36I have posted multiple times about a man that ultimately has broken my heart. I'm healing. I decided to stop all contact. There's no hope for what I wanted which was a romantic intimate connection. Well we had that sporadically with agononizing hiatuses. I still care about him and want to reach out to meet. Just to talk. Can I trust myself not to try and help him in some way? (His problems were like catnip to me.) I've done enough!Great vigor seems to imply that I could talk with him. But not sure.Is it worth it to have my say? Don't want to clobber him. Only speak my truth kindly instead of disappear. Then back to the drawing board of life without him. Thanks for any ideas.