Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Thank you for your response. We moved in together almost a year ago. Things were great at the beginning, but then her attitude towards me began to change. One day, I looked at her phone and she was writing to her ex-boyfriend, but she deleted her responses and only kept his. I still haven't confronted her about it and she doesn't know I'm aware those mesages happened. She only wanted to be on her cellphone when we watched something together. We became a lot less intimate and when I tried having a conversation with her, she told me I made her feel "uncomfortable". All I wanted was to figure out what the issue was. I have never forced her to do anything. Recently, I was sent on a 2 week trip for work for the second time this year. On the first trip, we would write and talk to each other. On this trip, if I didn't initiate a conversation I doubt she would have ever initiated anything. It definitely feels like we are drifting apart, and it drives me crazy that I'm the only one who seems to be into the relationship. I love her very much and I would like it to be how it was in the beginning. I'm willing to put in the time to make her fall in love with me again, but I don't know if I should just move on and end it.Hello and welcome to the forum.You don't write what kind of problems you have, so I can only try a very general interpretation.I don't think that your chances are bad, but you really have to be careful: don't try too hard, do not overrun her with your attempts. Obviously you are not fully aware of what's excactly going on, so beware of blind actionism resp. beware of doings things for the sake of doing things.Did one of you have an affair?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).