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    Good evening all, as some of you might know at my office job I'm currently working only with two girls-young one and older one. Older one is negatively influencing the other one, and they are both toxic. Especially the older one, which is extremely negative, badmouthing and hateful towards almost everyone. On the surface she is viewed as talkative and positive. I work with them for 2 years and I know it is just a mask.
    Soon we will be getting a new person to our team.
    In the past every new person who was working with us was easily manipulated by the girls and I was left alone to cope. I never said anything bad about them, holding up the rule to not say bad things because what would be the difference between me and them? The new person is a male. I know the guy, he is okay albeit has tendency to overindulge in alcohol (probably due to not very happy marriage) and I believe he might be prone to manipulation by them. I asked the Oracle whether should I tell him more or less what to expect from the girls:
    Shall I tell him the truth? Hex 23.6>2
    But also asked whether
    Shall I *not* tell him anything about them at all? Hex 36.1.3>2
    What more experienced Yjing readers see as the more beneficial option here?

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    Both the answers sound "sweet and sour" to me.

    Shall I tell him the truth? 23.6 > 2
    He will support you but the overall imagery is not that great. This combination is a painful one.

    Shall I *not* tell him anything about them at all? 36.1.3 > 2
    This sounds a tiny bit better. A bit less pain here. He will find out for himself, in the long-run.

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    Quote Originally Posted by diamanda View Post
    Both the answers sound "sweet and sour" to me.Shall I tell him the truth? 23.6 > 2 He will support you but the overall imagery is not that great. This combination is a painful one.Shall I *not* tell him anything about them at all? 36.1.3 > 2 This sounds a tiny bit better. A bit less pain here. He will find out for himself, in the long-run.
    Thank you.. I'm just so tired with the "long run", nothing ever changed that girl is undermining everything in this team and others are blind to it. As an empath I'm suffering from it even more. I'm looking for new job but no luck so far. I thought that the first casting will mean open conflict somehow..

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrKind View Post
    I thought that the first casting will mean open conflict somehow
    It might well mean that. And the winner of the conflict will be whoever is higher in the company hierarchy. Who is senior in position at work here? Because this is who will win.

    Such nasty creatures can never be defeated if they're higher up. Sad but true... Even if they're not that high up, since they're very 'established', I don't see how you could defeat them, since it's obvious it's not in your nature to play their game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrKind View Post
    that girl is undermining everything in this team and others are blind to it
    I'm pretty certain they're just pretending to not see it. Nastiness is hard to miss. But a lot of people turn a blind eye because they need to keep their jobs to survive.

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    Nobody is higher she is there for like 3 years but never care to achieve anything. She is albeit much more social than me. I only wonder whether the new guy will not be able to resist and somewhat join their side".

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    Just to clarify, she is working there longer than me but our positions are the same. And yeah energetically wise I don't want to go into another open conflict with someone sitting 0.5m far from me. But her behavior is the essence of negative trolling. For example, one of her favourite things is to badmouth and laugh at someone who is listening to music on the headphones and can't even notice she is doing that and suckling others in to laugh from him. It's like 9 years old behaviour, she is 30. She looks, eats and feels very unhealthy. She must be very unhappy inside.

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    23.6 - 2 seems to be reminding you that you are looking to move on from this job so focus on that and don't worry about this soon-to-be past drama. It occurs to me that perhaps the Universe in knowing you are moving on has supplied these co-workers with a new victim so they can all work out their karma together. You no longer need to be a part of this drama. Turn your role over to the new guy and detach!

    36.1 - No need to take on the chore of enlightening the new guy.
    36.3 - You probably couldn't help him anyway. He'll figure it out for himself. It's gotta take some time but he'll get it.
    2. Again, detach, maintain a non-judgemental attitude. The less emotionally involved -magnetized! - you are to these people the more easily a new job will open for you.
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    Thanks Rosada. I am working on it! Your readings are always spot on. Working as a mental balsam to me hahaha

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    Btw, I also asked the Oracle whether I should openly tell her (as opposed to what she is saying all day long and poisoning me with her remarks) that I appreciate this job and I am grateful to it. Basically, to start being more positive.
    Hexagram 37.6>63
    So the initial hex 37 I think says its a good idea, but the outcome of 63 says that this is dangerous path - once I will 'cross that river' there will be no turning back (hence the fox with the water under his head- danger). So I am more or less in doubt here. Maybe its better to keep low profile.

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