So still single AF, never had a bf before/still a virgin, gonna be 37 next month. I guess feeling a bit on edge about this. Online dating hasn't yielded much for me so far (lots of heyyyys, very few people I feel much in common with, the dates I've been on have been really boring or the guys have been kinda mean, calling me out on my inexperience and saying there must be something really wrong with me if I'm inexperienced)

I went on a small trip recently and trying to focus on just being out and about and meeting more people (I have good friends here in this city I moved back to a year ago, but they are all in serious relationships and not available to hang in the way we did in our 20s). I've gotten 3 new jobs this week (!) one of which is selling booze at farmer's markets which I'm sure I'll meet people at. I play live music once or twice a week, I'm trying some random different things- going out to shows by myself, dance/yoga/martial arts class drop ins, hiking meetups, just random stuff. I've sorta been doing those things but really committing to at least one thig a day even if just going to pickup my CSA box but hanging a bit, or talking with people at coffeeshop, etc.

I asked "What can I be doing right now to get in a healthy romantic relationship in the not too far future", I got 19.2.4.6 to 21
All those changing lines look really good, like I am on the right path. But 21 kinda scares me. Like even with the right effort I am blocked? Please tell me I am wrong and there's another way to understand this?

What can I be doing right now to get in a healthy romantic relationship in the not too far future
19.2.4.6 > 21

The answer shows that a healthy romantic relationship is not possible right now. However, you can get something if you hang out with others (19.2), enter a clique (19.4), and then really persist in joining with them (19.6) and bite through forcibly (21).