My husband and I moved from the big city to a tiny town about 3 years ago, and it hasn't turned out to be what we expected. We're ready to relocate, and we can potentially move anywhere (we work from our computers), but I'm afraid of making a decision – in other words, moving to the "wrong" place again and staying there for too long because moving is hard and costly. Also because my husband is really keen on buying a place.

I asked the I Ching, "What's a good place for us to live?" and got 14 unchanging. Would "Great Possessing" be about making a new place my own? And any place that I claim will be a good one?

I then asked, "How can I avoid making the wrong choice about where to move?" and got 55 unchanging. It seems the I Ching agrees that this is overwhelming, but I'm not sure what it gives me in terms of pratical advice. Study the facts?

Your insights are much appreciated!