Hi everyoneI recently got into an argument with someone I care about. The more I tried to find a solution the angrier she got and after I tried to be truthful and vulnerable she said some really hurtful things. I don't think she even wants to acknowledge that she has hurt me and I don't know if she actually cares. I have to see her in a group setting in a few days but I am very angry and hurt and I think confronting her about it just makes it worse as she is already not very happy with herself and is very defensive. I asked: what I should do when I see her and how I should deal with her! and I got hexagram 59 lines 2 and 6 changing to 8. I'd appreciate your take on this.

anyone?

Oh, I just saw this. Thank you. Well, I usually confront people to solve the situation but I feel like confrontation just makes her more defensive. I feel as though the cold shoulder is all I have left to give in this situation but it doesn't sound very constructive or wise which is why I asked the question.