I asked the Yijing to comment on my relationship with a girl.

It's response was hexagram 37 with no changing lines

What does this mean? What would this mean in terms of action or non-action?

"I asked the Yijing to comment on my relationship with a girl. > 37"

if you want her to cooperate with you then you must show that you are being honest and sincere, work/talk together in harmony and not be bossy or try to dominate her, therefore you must show affection and that you are a responsible person so that she can learn to trust you, so listen to her and be receptive to her needs, be respectful.

I think that's good advice, but I'm not sure 37 says all that...

What I do see is that it's important to have a common (or complimentary) life goal(s), each of you taking his/her part of the work responsibly, even if the goal is something as simple (or complicated) as economic survival.

See Lise's 37
http://www.anton-heyboer.org/i_ching/hex_33-48/hex_e_37.htm

...well, mebbe the attitudes/behaviors WF mentions make working toward a common goal effective.

Rinda

Good I think I did the right thing then.
I did not call in all our commonalities in the email I just sent
but I did naturally surface allot of them.

Pretty much the idea that penetrated to me is: communication within a group.

So that means action. Take action. keep to words with substance.
And thats what I did. =)

Thanks for repyling willow and rinda
I think what you said makes sense, and am
gald to say I followed all of your advices
Thanks allot!

May you both have a good day.