22.1>52

[goddessliss]

Creatively speaking I have had someone around who has been helped me so much to find my true essence. But on an emotional level this connection has been very draining.

I feel like I am going pretty well now and don't really need them so much anymore.

I asked show me any further connection with this person

Hex 22.1>52

Looks like I will be ok on my own - any further thoughts?

thks have fun Melissa x

 

[icastes]

22 is good for anything to do with the arts. At the same time, it is about a wedding where the gifts are meager and deception was obviously used to put the couple together. But it all works out more or less. (Marriage is very problematic in the Yijing.) The Sun is setting under the western mountains in 22, and there is little light to see great distances. Yes, goddess, I think you can go on your own, and be serene like a mountain (52), because you are also going to find that you are going to have to wait, stop, and remain silent about everything to do with this relationship, which tends to be very one-sided anyway.

 

[goddessliss]

Thks icastes - I was hoping that if I let them know I no longer feel the need for their interaction they will just move one so could you please elaborate on -
'because you are also going to find that you are going to have to wait, stop, and remain silent about everything to do with this relationship'. thks x

 

[jfas]

Hey goddess, just wondering how the situation you described in this thread went:

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=12180

Did you go?

 

[goddessliss]

Hi jfas

I sent her a msge and said something like ' yes I would love to go but everytime we make arrangements you cancel on me?'
She never replied and I heard from a mutual friend that she asked whether they had heard from me a couple of days after I sent the msge. So I'm guessing she won't contact me but ironically since then my social life has picked up, so it's all good and so here I am off to a birthday party right now.
thks for asking and have fun Liss x