Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
A friend of mine, B, texted me that he needed to see me and talk. He mentioned he was “leaving the hosptial”.
As back ground - B and I have been in a hexagram 54 relationship for over a year. We go from hot to cold, anger to love, etc. it’s a rollercoaster. Currently we are in a calm state of easy going interactions after a huge blow out fight last week.
So I asked first - what was all that and got hexagram 20.5.6 changing to hexagram 2.
I kinda think that was just exactly how I reacted - detached and calm. Trying to be strong.
But I just have this awkward nagging that there was something that I “didn’t do” or something. So I asked “how is he feeling about me now” and got hexagram 47.3.4 changing to hexagram 48.
That one I don’t get. I don’t feel that I oppressed him or anything. The interaction lasted all of 30 mins maybe and a lot of it was in silence. Maybe was my detachment received by him as “cold” and therefore the oppression comes into play ??
Any insights? I’m really confused.
'Confined by stones,
Grasping at star thistles.
Entering into his house, does not see his wife.
Pitfall.'
Thank you, Trojina, for your reply. I understand where you could get some those responses. The situation is far more complicated than this instance. The thing Id like to answer back to is that yes, we are friends, and yes we are intimate. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.
We have a very frangible relationship, but there is something karmic going here and Im trying to figure out the lesson I need to learn so I can move on. Thus far, no amount of pain or love can get us closer or farther away from each other. Its ridiculously stubborn and magnetic.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).