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So the key idea of 49 (around which the hexagram gets its name) is that Fire fights its way up from the depths of the Lake to invoke a revolution.
And the key idea of 39 is that there are Mountains behind you, and you are FORCED to take a risk and venture through the Water.
When combined, the immediate idea I get is that, to improve your financial situation, you need to make a risky move that you cannot go back on. 49 comes first, and that's a drastic change, then 39 is a forced risk.
Since you're using fan yaos in that way, when 39.1 says Going limping, coming praise I tend to think that means going forth limping what comes to you is praise and encouragement. People want to see, and support, others taking the risks that they're afraid of. This interpretation imo fits with the overall meaning of the hex and the Confucian comments, which say "It is proper to await [prepare to meet friendly or hostile forces]".
But back to 49's lines: line 4 is especially interesting:
Past errors are corrected when you have sincerity. Altering your destiny is favorable.
In the context of 49, it pretty much speaks for itself. Get off the old path and start the revolution of the new.
I don't know what all this means in connection to your financial situation, I don't have details, but all signs point to TAKE A BIG RISK THAT YOU CAN'T GO BACK ON imo.
My question was what I can do to make my relationship with my man better for me.
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Stay or go? Does this reading tell me? Thank you for your help.
Chris
+++++Hi Chris,
before giving my interpretation of this readying, let me make clear that I am not telling you either to stay or to go - that is a decision only you can make, and presumably on more than just a single I ching reading
I can only tell you how I would interpret this answer had I gotten it for this question..
That being said, if I had recieved it I would take it as an encouragement to make a change.
the context of your reading is 39 which fits with what you wrote about the current situation in your partnership where you do feel obstructed by your partners inconsiderate behaviour to you. The text says "The southwest furthers. The northeast does not further." The sourthwest stands for a retreat, the northeast for advance. So the general tone here is, retreat, don't advance. It may mean that you need to retreat from your partner now, in order to get back into a more positive relationship with him or someone else later ("This requires the will to persevere just when one
apparently must do something that leads away from his goal.")
Your primary hex is 49 and that speaks of radical change. However, the change should only be made after due deliberation Line 1: ("Changes ought to be undertaken only when there is nothing else to be done. Therefore at first the utmost restraint is necessary. One must becomes firm in one's mind...") Then, and only then is the "change in government" (Line 4) successfull.
So in summary I would say this could mean prepare yourself for retreating from this relationship now, but give the decision due diligence and act only after having considered all the implications. You may need to reatreat now in order to advance later, which could mean a successful relationship with either the same man or another. In any case, your actions will have a profound change onto your life.
Again, let me stress that this is the message I am getting from the reading, and not a recommendation for your further actions - that is for you to decide.
best wishes
maui
I can't see this reading saying anything but turn back (39), don't try and make it better (49.1), at least right now, and totally change your own attitude. I wonder if line 4 could be showing his response to your retreat. I dunno... Either way, sounds like your energy would be wasted there now. But I think you have it right. Sounds like a real jerk, and it's sometimes harder to let them go because the emotional injury from their insensitivity. Makes you want to look harder for the person who you used to know. Sorry to hear it, but unfortunately bad boyfriends are epidemic nowadays. Find comfort that you are not alone
Thank you for the hug and have one back.
Thanks for your followup. I have not yet felt any compulsion to ask more of the Yi as I think I have plenty of time to fill yet before the completion of the cycle. But, it will come to me ...
Line 4 "Good luck, promotion, and success are indicated, especially if you are now in a humble position or living a quiet life." The Divination Foundation I Ching - just downloaded to my Kindle and browsing through it. ! I do so love the Yi.
So, to all a good night.:bows:
Chris
Another one! It's the only reason I'm posting - to document this string of Hex 49. answers from the Yi.
Yesterday, I finally asked again : Yi, what direction should my thoughts of Dave take? 49.3,4 > 3 Hex 3 is big change, growth, potentially.
I don’t know what to think of this? 49 again?
Line 3
Initiating action at the present time might well bring negative results.
Haven't thought of any action to initiate so....
Line 4
Waiting upon change? What change?
3 > A new beginning? Is difficult to begin with?
Somebody please, give me a good followup question for the Yi - what do *I* need to ask about change? ( I already asked what I need to change - 5 patience)
Am I to patiently wait for a change? What choice do I have LOL !!
Chris (blind as a bat where my own readings are concerned)
Hi Chris
Hex 49 is about overthrowing the old - whatever your thoughts about this guy are right now, you need to change them radically This is necessary in order for a new cycle to start, and for you to find confirmation of your personality (On your own day you are believed.)
LIne 3 to me does not say that inaction would be good - it says that if action has been duly and repeatedly considered, and be found to be the only course of action, it should be done. The important thing is that you yourself buy into the change and stand unreservedly behind it - so don't do anything you are not really in your heart sure about.
LIne 4 supports that - where do you see that this talks about waiting? To me it is a direct continuation of line 3 : "Remorse disappears. Men believe him. Changing the form of government brings good fortune."
Hex 3 is telling you that while the radical change of 49 will be quite difficult to live with at first, but will have good fortune in the end.
So overall, I'd say this means, think about your situation in-depth one more time - and when you have come to a conclusion, act on it and don't be afraid if the start is rocky, it will work out (better than you expect) in the end.
hope this helps!
maui
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