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Hi folks,
Here I am, resorting to your good judgement. Slowly but surely depression has been creeping up in me. I thought I was doing okay last year, working hard, showing I could undertake major tasks. Things went pretty well, but now, it's all falling on top of me. It's like I just can't function any more. My projects from last year aren't finished and I just can't get around to putting a close to them. The new ones are a challenge and I have to coordinate other people, plus do my own stuff. My colleagues from last year's project are angry at me, in part for not giving the right closure. Plus, of the intimate life is a disaster -husband who is sympathetic but just never asks, just gives opinions-, and, in addition, my health is waning. My mother is in bad shape too. I asked the Yi:
How can I get out of the depression I'm in?
The answer:
25
no changing lines.
25 is definitely a hexagram I have never understood. Kind of calls to action, but at the same time points to "innocent behavior". How to understand this in view of my situation.
God will I appreciate your answers!
Thank you so much in advance.
Hulda
Hi Hulda
Since you didn't ask specifics about your life situation (EG how to handle project X) but asked about depression, I assume you suspect this is a clinical depression unrelated to what's going on in the world, right? If so, it's a complex disease, and as such I don't believe the i Ching is not capable of giving you specifics on how to cure it just as the i Ching couldn't tell someone specifically how to change a clutch in their car. . So basically, hex 25 states the obvious. That if you turn to your inner wisdom with empty hands (no preconceived ideas) in other words in innocence, you will know what to do.
In the meantime, you might consider seeking advice from other sources such as a mental health professional. To over-simplify, it's a little like a headache. I believe we can use the source of inner wisdom to cure a headache. But the pain is often so compelling, it prevents us from concentrating on anything else. So we take an aspirin to solve the problem and to give us a comfortable space to work on the the spiritual side of our nature if that's what we choose to do
Hi Lloyd,Hi hulda - Sorry for having been too brief. Yes, hexagram 24 proceeds hexagram 25 and as such explains the phase of hexagram 25 (Sequence). 24 may indicate fluctuations in life and 25 explains that we may take these fluctuations at face value (change of seasons in life, for instance). The confusions that arise out of these fluctuations are not caused by "errors" on your behalf, they confront us with new things we have to learn (forming of personality/character).
The reason I came to these very general suggestions is that there are no changing lines.
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I think you're right about focusing, taking one step at a time, not feeling responsible for everything around me. I think you're right about this being the Yi's advice. I am somewhat scared of that because everytime I've said to myself: Oh, I'm doing my best, and things will work themselves out, it's like people sensed that and got angrier at me. So I'm just scared of not taking on all of the responsibility.
I will try this week, as January sets in, and life takes on more of a routine, to work very hard, with very clear tasks, trying, one step at a time, to get out. Actually, to be quite frank I DO feel I am NOT responsible, as I know how hard I have been working, trying to make sure everybody felt good about the conference I participated in organizing. I actually feel that my colleagues are misinterpreting the situation and are venting off their anger at me. I feel I can't defend myself and I can't figure out how to have them understand that. Maybe that's what's made things so complicated!
Anyway, if you have more good advice on 25 and how it can assist me on this endeavor, I would really appreciate it. As I said, just being able to get some outsied opinions is extremely helpful.
Thanks!
Why are you so certain the Yi cannot give us specifics.?.it may not be able to give precise instructions on how to change the clutch in a car but sometimes it can give very accurate symbolic representation of solution to a practical problem. Once again i refer to Knots example of taking 44 to mean jump starting his car..and it worked. I recently asked if i would need a filling or a crown on a tooth (huge price difference) and i got 14.6 which clearly even by the look of the hexgram, sovereignity, the last line all said 'crown' to me and crown it was. The Yi can talk to us outside of the text..but actually i think you yourself gave lots of examples of that kind of thing
maybe, i just can't think of anything less 25ish than seeking help from a mental health proffessional
It's clear I HAVE to act, I just don't know how to organize myself (like that one, I have problems all around me), and I don't know how to handle my relationship with others.
When things get impossible and you can't win whatever you do depression is virtually a natural reaction. Even with animals i read somewhere that if an animal can't reach a goal whatever it does (in an experimental situation) it soon becomes listless and apathetic.
You can only do what you can do, perhaps you could try to disengage inwardly from their blame and just get on with things....
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).