The time is nearing - Hex 19.3.4 to 34

[veronica]

Yes, yes, it me again, back with my old little bag of problems. Still trying to find a way to break free. I will do it eventually, I know, the question is how and.... well how. Back in June I think I posted a question on how to break free (from my ex partner, who doesn't want to let go and who is also a father of my child) and I got back then Hex 19 unchanging. Some time and effort has passed (there were plans to move up north from London to create physical distance from him that never actually materialised) and it seems like not much has changed since, apart from the fact that I cannot really take this situation for much longer (his constant begging mixed with threats to give this relationship one last go for the sake of keeping the family together). So back to my good old question, this time slightly rephrased: "How do I deal with X to be able to trully break free"?. I got hex 19.3.4 to 34. I think I got the jest of if, i.e. the time of change is approaching, I must not get too settled into what's left of the comfort zone but stick to what I believe is right, and not wait too long to act (but is hex 19 advising me to act or kind of follow the natural path of events). If I persevere with my beliefs then my regrets will vanish and a time of great power will approach (which I must not overuse, i.e. hurt people along the way, which might indicate perhaps making sure that my ex will always have access to our son??)

Please let me have your thoughts on this, I know I have been going on about it for months but Im finding it really hard (for various reasons). Have I got the interpretation right? Have I missed anything important?? Does anyone have any more thoughts on Hex 34 in this reading?

I would really appreciate your comments on this.

Many thanks!

XXX

 

[willowfox]

"How do I deal with X to be able to truly break free"?. I got hex 19.3.4 to 34.

I remember advising you to get away from this man but you wanted to give him another 3 months, to try living with him to see if he would change his ways. Can a tiger change his stripes?

Line 19.3 suggests that you need to get tough with him and yourself, this is no time to just wander along, now you need to be firm, rock hard.

line 19.4 suggests that again you need to deal with him in the right way, you have to assume control of the situation in a proper, fair and reasonable way, you have to show that your the boss and that you will not allow him to try and manipulate you anymore, so boundaries have to be set by you.

Hex 34 says show your strength but don't abuse your position over him, you need to be reasonable .

 

[veronica]

You are great Willowfox, thank you.
It seems like I will need all my strength to pull this through.... I will try!