Admitting feelings 14.3 > 38

[Lola1986]

Hi all,

Asking about a friend I've had a crush on for ages,

Please advise on telling x about my feelings:
14.3 > 38
Hmm... maybe yes you can but you can't have any expectation of receiving anything in return (i.e. feelings).

I actually have a feeling this is one I just need to wait out, it may happen, it may not, of its own accord or initiated by him, and I either need to be patient or it'll just pass on it's own. But I was curious what people thought of this reading and it's meaning.
Lola

 

[mandarin_23]

Well 14.3 - in 14, in general, there is a possibility, a potential.
However, Line 3 - it is a question if you are "a prince" or a "lessser person". I can't tell what this means to you. But I'd take it as an advice to gain a wide view on what's going on ... and decide for the option which is greater, more noble-hearted.
All the best
mandarine_23

 

[Lola1986]

Hmm...interesting. I'd say in a way maybe I am the lesser person, only because I think I am more interested in him than he is in me, well, in terms of having a serious relationship. But I'm not sure what the wide view is...maybe something like am I really right for him, rather than just is he right for me? Like try and figure out whether it would work for both genuinely, rather than getting caught in chasing something based simply on an idea, a crush, rather than a more solid compatibility? But I don't know, you don't really until you try!

Maybe I'll take it as, at some point, I could tell him, but only when I'm able to really suggest/ask it in a way that genuinely leaves the possibility of a no there, like if he said no because it wouldn't be right for him. So be open to that and to not understanding it as a rejection but just as what he's needing and wanting, what is best for him. Something like that, not being selfish? I don't know. It's very hard to know these things in advance isn't it!

 

[thisismybody]

By telling him you will be making a sacrifice, giving it to heaven or allowing come what may. Are you big enough to do this, to take this chance, to sacrifice your pride potentially? Or will you cling to it and not see what’s at the other end? You have something to give here. How abundant are you? The abundant person knows that there is always more, so they’re willing to let it flow through their hands. The person who is fearful, who wants to hold on, retracts and will not let go and give. They won’t risk it. You may be increased and gain more of your 14, or decreased. Yi asks if you’re willing to live the truth of your feelings, which is what you have in great measure. It doesn’t say what will happen, but asks if you will be a big enough person to accept what could happen.

I had this line for a fraud doctor who sells his services through a Groupon, which is a coupon, so people can save money. I felt so uneasy in the office that I almost left. I got 14.3 while I was there. 14.3 meant, are you willing to let go of the money you already paid, bc you’re about to be taken for 100% more to get the service you were seeking? If I had listened and been big enough/understood my own abundance, I’d have accepted the initial loss of my money and listened to my gut, instead of giving him more money and not actually getting what I paid for. In addition, seeking a coupon for the service was not very 14 or 14.3 of me. TBH. Some things one should outright pay for through someone very reputable, esp concerning health. I imagine he gains many 1-time clients through this coupon process, which is why he does it bc he cheats people and can’t build a normal clientele list. I found him in a hurry bc my regular doctor moved on. Yi was just throwing it back on me by asking who I am, getting me to question if I am big enough to accept consequences. If I could do it over, I should have walked out the door and lost my initial investment. And if I had known better, I should have never bought the coupon. Or Yi was saying, you’re about to be swindled—can you just chalk it up to a lesson learned, or are you going to make him pay? Be the bigger person.

14.3 says to me, tell him. Let the chips fall where they may. A fearful person won’t be able to do this.