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Hi Elizabeth,
I recall reading that you have been looking for 'the one' for a long time and sometimes this can cloud our judgement when we do find someone of interest.
Please read the book 'He's Just Not that Into you' and compare what is going on with what the book's about.
Blessings
Melissa
1) If he does not contact me all week, what if I go to archery on Saturday? (just show up)
Hex 5.1.5>46
This seems to say "wait." Hex 5 is waiting, each line indicates waiting and 46 "waiting is good fortune"... so I will take it at face value. I guess this means "do not go."??
Hex 5 teaches that the proper course is in engaging wholly in this moment rather than projecting into the future or bemoaning the past. There is a tendency, when one begins engaging in the IC, to become utterly passive and inert. This is as counter-productive as being wholly aggressive and goal-oriented. The Tao lies in finding the correct path in every moment, remaining open and unstructured, engaging with others when they are open to you, and withdrawing without hesitation or regret when their receptivity wanes.
"If there's a general understanding that you and your group will attend this session, then attend. Live your life! As you note, it would seem weird if you suddenly dropped out of sight, or remained utterly passive, etc -- and then there would be no chance of development in this relationship."
Elias, thank you so much for this. As obvious as it probably sounds and seems, the way you phrased it really struck a chord with me, namely the part "engaging ..when they are open, and withdrawing..when receptivity wanes."
You noted:
THANK YOU. That clarifies what I was wondering. There is an assumption that I will go, or at least that if I cannot go, that I let them know. (Or maybe this is my sense of decorum; to me it would feel strange and rude to not communicate with friends, new or old). I think it would be weird at this point to just disappear w/o explanation at all. Maybe that's what dating rules would indicate (disappearing in silence), but at this point this is not dating, it is a developing circle of new friends (all of them in fact, not just the guy). On the other hand if I hear nothing from any of htem all week maybe i would just disappear, but i will deal when that happens.
46: Pushing upward. Great oaks from tiny acorns grow. Slowly. <--Heh. This is the hard part for me. The Patience.
Being still within. Elias said it well I think.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).