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The hexagram is about control of forces, restraining and controlling them. The reading compares your use of the legal system to owning a fine horse; with training and daily care, it can deliver valuable results. But be aware of the amount of time involved and the single-minded effort required to get the results. Remember, your life is going by; is this how you want to spend it?H
I did talk to a lawyer and she basically said I would win if we went to court (but of course I know that that is not necessarily the case)
So I asked yi how does tao advice on the possibility of going to court for custody and got 26.3 moving to 41.
Yi is being very general and philosophical here; H18 can be translated as "work on what is spoiled." It is a long process and you must commit yourself to the journey. Yi is representing both your husband and/or the relationship as corrupt and decayed. The fact that there are no moving lines indicates a static situation that will be hard to change.I also asked how to best deal with my ex and got 18 unchanging.
Yi suggests that retreat is best for your daughter, but comments on how it will affect you. "You retreat out of love and repect, to allow space and freedom for yourself and all involved." (Hilary) Line 6 implies that Retreat enriches you; you have achieved goals for yourself by this high quality retreat.Then I asked what is best for my daughter and I got 33.4.6>39
Is it basically saying I should prepare and train for battle, but that for my daughter's sake it is best to withdraw?
Your understanding above does sound basically correct...Yi puts more emphasis than you did above on the positive aspects of retreat, that you are withdrawing for good reasons, and that, if you have the attitude of a superior man, you will quite happy with that, and will see that there should be no doubt that you did the right thing.Ok, so I will take that to mean that overall there is not much to gain trying to find a common base of communication with ex, just leave well enough alone. Also I will not initiate any legal proceedings (which i wasn't going to do anyway) but if he initiates it would I be in a good position to win, or would I be best served retreating? Anyway, right now I just pull my energy back from the whole thing and just watch over the developments. Does that seem like a correct summary?
Thanks so much for your help!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).